Hi, I'm really uncomfortable about something that just happening and not sure if I'm being unreasonable. I work on a Sunday and knew that my husband was going to a folk session in a local pub this afternoon, and taking my 9 year old daughter with him. She was going to do colouring with another girl that was going there. He said they'd be back by 5pm. I get home and start cooking tea. My DD calls to let me know she's actually gone back to this other girl's house, with their mum, while her dad and my husband are left playing in the pub. I don't know this woman / family but my husband met them recently at a kids event at a local library. The mum was there and said hi etc and offered to give my DD tea. She still has homework to do and said that it might be better to come home once husband arrives to collect her. I phone husband and he's still playing in the pub, said he'd be home with DD by 7pm. Seemed unconcerned that our DD in someone else's home on her own. I feel flabbergasted by his stupidity but just want to check whether I'm over-reacting?!