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If it comes to it would you choose heating or eating?

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Tuliprain · 06/02/2022 16:07

We were having this discussion the other night. I would choose eating and husband would choose heating - so we are already stuck. Im thinking we could warm up with blankets and hot water bottles etc but nothing you can do about hunger. He says the house will go mouldy and he’s rather be hungry than cold. Such a depressing subject to be considering.

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LoisLane66 · 10/02/2022 00:27

Eating is key to stay healthy. You can exercise to keep warm, wear more clothes etc but you can't eat clothes or eat exercise.

LoisLane66 · 10/02/2022 00:32

My heating has not come on all day as the temperature indoors is 18°c and my last gas and elec bills were 14.71 and 14.64 Jan to Feb 30 and 31 days, separate bills. I won't get the 200 in Oct as I pay business rates on electricity and I'm pleased not to have it.

mummykel16 · 10/02/2022 01:10

Cat litter in socks is meant to help with moisture in the air

etulosba · 10/02/2022 10:08

Cat litter in socks is meant to help with moisture in the air

Ha ha! I think I heard it all now.

etulosba · 10/02/2022 10:09

How do you get your shoes on?

CleansUpButWouldPreferNotTo · 10/02/2022 12:55

Kennykenkencat
If I am cold I can’t sleep, I can’t work, I can’t think. The cold is all I can think about.
I know I have a different body temperature to most other people. Even when every one is complaining of the heat in summer I just find it mildly pleasant. Even in Florida one year I bought a sweat shirt so I wouldn’t be cold when every one else was in t.shirts and shorts.

That's me too so I sympathise. And once the cold's got in to my bones, even after I've eventually managed to warm up my body is wracked with violent shivers which come without warning for the next few hours. Cold is a killer! I'm very fond of using my hairdryer to warm my clothes before dressing, and sometimes running it under my clothes and down my back when I've just come in from outside. That short concentrated burst of heat really helps and costs pennies.

CleansUpButWouldPreferNotTo · 10/02/2022 13:07

KurtWilde
When my dad died she went from having a decent double income and a car to barely anything overnight. The government even demanded half my dad's last pension payment back because it went in on the Tuesday and he died on the Friday so he wasn't eligible for it.

As long as the government were informed within five days of the death, they have no legal right to demand it back:

Friends or relatives can ignore requests by the Government to return overpaid state pension payments in the event of the recipient's death, as there is no legal obligation to pay the money back.

This issue was highlighted on Twitter after Radio 4 journalist and presenter Paul Lewis responded to a tweet from a man who had just lost his mother and complained that the Department for Work and Pensions (DWP) had asked the family to return £160.

When someone dies, their death must be registered within five days in England and Wales (unless the death is reported to a coroner), or within eight days in Scotland. The Government, in most cases, should be informed, which is usually done via the Government's 'Tell Us Once' service, run by the DWP. Although the various Government departments can also be contacted individually. (In Northern Ireland, deaths must be registered within five days and can be reported to the Government's bereavement service instead.)

Using the 'Tell Us Once' service informs all relevant departments, including the tax office and local Government offices, to cancel things on behalf of the deceased, such as benefit payments and driving licences. This process can take a little while and may be the cause of a state pension overpayment after death.

But MoneySavingExpert (MSE) has confirmed the advice given by Mr Lewis that people have no legal obligation to repay any money wrongly paid after the authorities have already been informed about a death.

www.moneysavingexpert.com/news/2022/01/dwp-has--no-legal-power--to-force-you-to-repay-pension-or-benefi/

Kennykenkencat · 10/02/2022 13:24

CleansUpButWouldPreferNotTo

I thought I was the only person who felt the cold like I do
People say put on extra cardigans and layers etc but I still feel cold.
Only time in my life I felt like my body was finally a comfortable temperature was when it was 112 degrees in the shade and people were fainting because of the heat.

I went jogging.

No one understands that if you feel the cold no amount of coats, scarves, gloves, soups and stews are going to warn you up.

The heat has got to cover your whole body and warm up your core

I lived for the first 20 years of my life in a grey cold drizzly northern town.
The deciding factor of moving to London was after a summer weekend away I was sitting in Hyde Park waiting for the time to get the train back North and I suddenly realised that I was not wearing a cardigan or anything on my arms and I wasn’t feeling the sun tempered by a chilly breeze. I felt just the sun

Something went really wrong when I was born. I was meant for California and not Cumbria. I like to think there is an American woman somewhere who hates the sun and hankers after the rain of Manchester England but was born to a family of surfers in Malibu

CleansUpButWouldPreferNotTo · 10/02/2022 16:12

Kennykenkencat
Something went really wrong when I was born. I was meant for California and not Cumbria. I like to think there is an American woman somewhere who hates the sun and hankers after the rain of Manchester England but was born to a family of surfers in Malibu

GrinGrinGrin

JuliaMumsnet · 18/02/2022 15:34

Hello! Just popping by to say that we're doing a Q&A with National Energy Action about all things to do with the energy price hikes, on Wednesday at 12 noon. The thread is open for questions here.

MondeoFan · 20/02/2022 22:49

Food-I get a headache if I don't eat properly. Plus it makes me miserable to be hungry. I'd rather be cold. Or possibly only have heating on for 45 mins say and cut down drastically on food shop

FantasticFebruary · 01/03/2022 09:19

@mummykel16

Cat litter in socks is meant to help with moisture in the air
Ouch!!

Joking aside, it's designed to absorb moisture so I guess it would work a little, but I'd think in small pots would be better, however the pits of stuff you buy are probably better and just as cheap in Poundland etc.

GrolliffetheDragon · 01/03/2022 12:00

I've just had an email letting me know what our gas and electric price rises are going to be come April, and I've done the maths and worked out what our DD will need to be cover it.

And yes, it's in the ball park of the previously mentioned £13 a week. That is not insignificant. And it's not the only thing that's increasing price, everything else is going up. And just looking at gas and electric, we'll be paying three times as much as we did when we bought our first home in 2009, and our income has dropped by about 20% since Covid. And I still consider us fairly lucky and do not know how people worse off than us will manage this.

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