Close friend from school is getting married in Wales on the same day as my husbands milestone birthday.
Attending the wedding would mean paying for a trip abroad and we wouldn't be able to afford to also go away for his birthday or do something big on the day.
The wedding is in Wales (travelling from Ireland) so not a sun holiday. He doesn't know my friend that well, she isn't a joint friend. Am I being unreasonable to want to go?
School friends wedding vs big milestone birthday for DH...
To add, another friend and MIL have said I would be very unreasonable to go.
- * [Post edited by MNHQ for clarity - changed the first mention of 'France' to 'Wales'] **