My son has had quite difficult behavioural issues as a teen, due to a result of this he’s ended up in voluntary care.
I see him once a week of an evening to go for a meal or coffee as my husband won’t let him in the house.
Now every time it’s contact day my husband will pick all day and then just before it’s time to leave blow up an argument saying that I’m selfish asking him to look after the little ones because it’s not fair for him to cook tea for them whilst I’m on a jolly.
I said it’s 5-7 due to by the time he finishes school it’s easier that way and only once a week, I do tea bath etc every other night of the week.
My husband is saying that I’m abandoning our little ones for my son and it’s just breaking my heart as he’s saying it’s not doable and isn’t happening anymore.
I offered to do a different day but he said no because any day doesn’t work for him.
Now he’s asking me to move out.
I feel so alone and low.