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People walking their cats on leads - NO! AIBU?

117 replies

feyzer · 02/01/2022 14:56

Recently, I have noticed an increasing number of people with cats on leads in my local park and I do have to wonder what they’re thinking.

Firstly, cats are not dogs. They are territorial animals and when they go out will follow a set route they have marked by their scent. This is the whole point of going out for a cat - to check it’s territory and sniff about. They don’t need ‘exercise’ in the way dogs do. Being in a place with unfamiliar smells will be overwhelming for them.

Secondly, dogs in this park are meant to be on leads, but often are not and could attack the poor cat at any second.

Finally, cats will climb when scared or run in bushes and surely they will get strangled or wound up in the collar or lead. For instance, yesterday, there was a woman with a ginger cat which ran up a tree after a crow ((but also because it was freaked out, I think). This cat was on a long, extendable lead, but obviously this got entangled in the twigs and branches in the tree and the cat was stuck. A man has to climb up to untangle the lead. Loads of people gathering around the tree and the cat was scared. The woman was going, “Ohhh ha ha, it’s the first time he’s been out!”

AIBU to think this is irresponsible cat-owner behaviour and these people clearly do not understand the basic nature of a cat?

This is in Hyde Park, by the way. Don’t know if it’s similar in other parks?

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StoneofDestiny · 02/01/2022 22:45

If all cats were on leads there would be less notices on local Facebook sites about their 'missing cat' or the discovery of a 'squashed in the road' cat. There would be less complaints on Mumsnet about cat fouling in their gardens too.
Get them all on leads!

IncompleteSenten · 02/01/2022 22:46

I know! I watch all their videos. She loves it. She's so happy balancing on that bike, sniffing the air.

That tail is always so high. She is happy. Genuinely happy.

SammyScrounge · 02/01/2022 22:46

No way to treat a cat. Seriously.

Sparklingbrook · 02/01/2022 22:46

@StoneofDestiny

If all cats were on leads there would be less notices on local Facebook sites about their 'missing cat' or the discovery of a 'squashed in the road' cat. There would be less complaints on Mumsnet about cat fouling in their gardens too. Get them all on leads!
Sparklingcat says no. 😂 But she never leaves the garden and uses a litter tray so she’s redeemed.
Curiousmouse · 02/01/2022 22:47

Amazed anyone can get a cat to agree to it.

Sparklingbrook · 02/01/2022 22:49

@IncompleteSenten

I know! I watch all their videos. She loves it. She's so happy balancing on that bike, sniffing the air.

That tail is always so high. She is happy. Genuinely happy.

She really is. They proper found each other. When she sits on his shoulders on the bike I do get a bit 😧 though!
StoneofDestiny · 02/01/2022 22:49

sparklingbrook - if only all cat owners were like you. 👏👏

Sparklingbrook · 02/01/2022 22:51

@StoneofDestiny

sparklingbrook - if only all cat owners were like you. 👏👏
Why thank you for the applause. She’s 15 so I think she’s too old for adventures of her youth.
IncompleteSenten · 02/01/2022 22:51

Me too.

She's fearless!

They're cycling down a busy road at full speed, trucks whizzing past and she does not give a fuck.

ThinWomansBrain · 02/01/2022 23:03

My cat has used a harness since she was about three months old - I wouldn't fancy trying to harness train an adult cat.
As a kitten, I used to take her to a few local parks that are supposed to be dog free - unfortunately you still get a few thick/twattish/illiterate owners; I did call the police once, who said they couldn't attend, but turned up within minutes and arrested the twattish dog owners for violating alcohol prohibition in the park.
A few years ago I was allocated a plot in a local community garden - fenced, lockable, cat safe - I take her there in her backpack, and the wanders on her lead.
I only have a roof garden that she's not keen on, live on a busy road in central London, and when she first came to me there a lot of problems with training of fighting dogs. She likes going to the community garden occasionally.

People walking their cats on leads - NO! AIBU?
FriedTomatoe · 02/01/2022 23:03

Up to owners what they do with their animals. I've had dogs and cats. There are 2 things that bother me about cats. The first, is that a lot of cats seem to wonder the streets during the day and this is making them vulnerable to accidents. If the owner doesn't mind this increased risk then they should crack on and let the cats get on with it. Secondly, regarding dogs - why is it always the dog owner's fault? The scenario I encounter with my dog is that there's a cat in the middle of the road, my dog sees it, the cat runs so my dog barks. The cat then hisses and arches her back, then I'm dragging my dog away. If a cat gets attacked by a dog, it's always the dog owner's fault- regardless of what the real facts may be.

ThinWomansBrain · 02/01/2022 23:05

she wanders, not the wanders :)

ImInACage · 02/01/2022 23:07

I walk mine on a harness. He was a stray before coming to us and loves to be outside and gets very stressed when kept in, but unfortunately a neighbour's cat beats him up constantly. I'm talking serious injuries needing surgery. He's been stitched back up and operated on four times within the last 15 months, causing both him and us great distress.

Our vet referred us to a cat behaviourist and we followed all her advice, including offering a timeshare arrangement with our neighbour as to when the cat's go out, but they refused this, understandably. She then suggested we keep him in permanently, but if he is too stressed and we can't cat proof the garden, which we can't, then he might (and I stress might) enjoy going for walks around our area. We tried it and introduced the harness very slowly. He loves it! He'll actively ask to go for a walk now. I go at his pace and we stay within his previous territory, but it helps him to settle so much better indoors. He's not stressed in the slightest on our walks, his ears are up, he walks nicely and he's interested in what's going on. We've also taken the opportunity to do some training with him to keep his mind active and he now sits, lays, rolls over and gives his paw. We're working on sitting before crossing the road and hes very nearly got it.

If the cat enjoys it I don't think it's irresponsible and our vet and behaviourist agree.

ThinWomansBrain · 02/01/2022 23:15

Although I take mine out on a lead, I voted YANBU - not about not taking cats out at all, but owners (servants) should do it responsibly; a busy place like hyde park doesn't sound sensible.

good site for pictures of cats being walked (or posing in harnesses)
www.mynwoodcatjackets.com/catwalk

Boood · 02/01/2022 23:33

I took both of mine out on leads when they were kittens, as the first step towards letting them explore on their own. Both of them loved it, but it doesn’t really work- they don’t exactly work with the limitations of the lead, and they try and scramble through bushes, climb trees… useful as a short-term thing only, imo. Plus it gets incredibly tedious humouring everyone you meet with an introduction to the cat. Even if you don’t leave your own garden.

astorsback · 02/01/2022 23:37

If the cat seems happy then I dont see a problem.

Ive always wondered though, what happens if the cat shits in one of those backpacks?

scarpa · 03/01/2022 18:33

[quote ThinWomansBrain]Although I take mine out on a lead, I voted YANBU - not about not taking cats out at all, but owners (servants) should do it responsibly; a busy place like hyde park doesn't sound sensible.

good site for pictures of cats being walked (or posing in harnesses)
www.mynwoodcatjackets.com/catwalk[/quote]
These are the harnesses we got - they're really good :)

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