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People walking their cats on leads - NO! AIBU?

117 replies

feyzer · 02/01/2022 14:56

Recently, I have noticed an increasing number of people with cats on leads in my local park and I do have to wonder what they’re thinking.

Firstly, cats are not dogs. They are territorial animals and when they go out will follow a set route they have marked by their scent. This is the whole point of going out for a cat - to check it’s territory and sniff about. They don’t need ‘exercise’ in the way dogs do. Being in a place with unfamiliar smells will be overwhelming for them.

Secondly, dogs in this park are meant to be on leads, but often are not and could attack the poor cat at any second.

Finally, cats will climb when scared or run in bushes and surely they will get strangled or wound up in the collar or lead. For instance, yesterday, there was a woman with a ginger cat which ran up a tree after a crow ((but also because it was freaked out, I think). This cat was on a long, extendable lead, but obviously this got entangled in the twigs and branches in the tree and the cat was stuck. A man has to climb up to untangle the lead. Loads of people gathering around the tree and the cat was scared. The woman was going, “Ohhh ha ha, it’s the first time he’s been out!”

AIBU to think this is irresponsible cat-owner behaviour and these people clearly do not understand the basic nature of a cat?

This is in Hyde Park, by the way. Don’t know if it’s similar in other parks?

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StrangerThanSpring · 02/01/2022 15:16

I did once see a couple take 2 pet rabbits to a very busy park. They put the rabbits on their leads and placed them on the grass only for the rabbits to freak out and run off dragging their owners after. I guess it was their first and only time to try that.

I once saw a woman taking a pig for a walk on a harness.

I guess if the cats are used to the park and go there a lot, it's fine. It's pretty obvious when a cat is in distress.

fairylightsandwaxmelts · 02/01/2022 15:19

@Newyearoldyou

It's clearly obvious when animals are in distress.
Actually, it's not.

Many owners don't recognise signs of distress in their own pets. The first signs of stress in animals are incredibly subtle.

AndAnotherNewOne · 02/01/2022 15:22

If it stops them shitting in neighbours' gardens it can only be a good thing.

whatnumber · 02/01/2022 15:25

Wtf! I thought this thread was a joke at first. My cats would hate this! Fair enough if some are ok with it but doesn't seem strange to me

BFPDec21 · 02/01/2022 15:26

I have a very energetic kitten and if he couldn't get out into the garden for a few days, I'd have no option but to take him to a park on a lead. He's like a dog having a mad half hour but all day if he doesn't get out.

I wouldn't do it regularly though as, ime from getting him used to the garden before he was allowed to go out, cats don't tend to like it much.

AramintaLee · 02/01/2022 15:28

YABU.

We have a bengal who is an indoor cat but needs a lot of exercise (they are incredibly energetic and need a release) so we have an exercise wheel for him but also take him for walks in the park on a harness. He loves it. Dogs don't tend to bother him because they have better sense than that and a cat can generally hold it's own when threatened. Whenever we're out with him, people are really kind and come up to us to say hello and he's now a well known cat in our local park.

We took our cat to the beach a few weeks ago and it was wonderful to see him prancing along the sand with his tail pointed up the whole time (signifying he was very happy and concent)

On the flip side, I also have an outdoor cat and I wouldn't take him out on a harness because he has his own outdoor territory he roams and I think he would find it too confusing.

traka · 02/01/2022 15:30

OP you seem to get offended very easily. No laws are being broken so I suggest you get over it

whachatalkinaboutwillis · 02/01/2022 15:31

It depends on the cat. I have kept many cats in my life and they are wildly different in nature. The current one loves to wear a Christmas jumper or hat and begs to have them put on. Quite mad. If a cat doesn't want to walk on a lead, how do you think the owners make them? They are literal bags of claws and teeth with their own minds - highly bred pedigrees are more biddable and dog like so just like different dog breeds, an owners should work with the cat they have.

IcedCoffeeMilkshake · 02/01/2022 15:32

Oddly enough I was thinking about this just yesterday. When I lived in a highrise flat with my lovely little rescue moggy I took her out on a lead. Otherwise she would never get out at all. We did not have a balcony. It took a ltitle bit of training but we had 3 happy years doing that. She loved it. We particularly liked summer picnics in the park.

endofthelinefinally · 02/01/2022 15:32

My friend's rescue cat was run over (prior to rescue) and has a brain injury and poor eyesight. She can't be let out on her own so they take her out regularly using a harness. She enjoys it and goes along quite happily. The alternative would be to never allow her out.

feyzer · 02/01/2022 15:33

Are Bengal cats more prone to walk in straight lines then and not be freaked out? The cats I see out and about have frequently looked like Bengals?

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Sparklingbrook · 02/01/2022 15:34

I think if you start doing anything with cats from a young age it just becomes the norm.
I couldn't take mine out on a lead because she's 15 and we've never done it, but if we'd done if from a kitten it would probably have been fine.

Nala (the cat from my link) doesn't seem to care what she's doing as long as she's with Dean. They do miles on the bike and she went kayaking at one point-it's just her normal.

ErrolTheDragon · 02/01/2022 15:37

Walking a cat (or ferret) is fine if it's done sensibly and the animal is happy. Having it zooming around into bushes and up trees on an extending lead is clearly bonkers.

We once met a bloke walking with a cockatoo on his shoulder and a rabbit on a lead. We (obviously) held our dog well back, the bloke said, don't worry, dogs treat him like another dog and let bunny approach close to our dog... who closed his jaws (softly, fortunately) round bunny's backside. No, he didn't ever do that to other dogs.

PinkSyCo · 02/01/2022 15:38

If it stops the little fuckers shitting in my garden and/or wandering into my house I’m all for it.

Mammma91 · 02/01/2022 15:39

I think it is completely bizarre and very frightening for a cat. I have 2 indoor cats, neither have ever been outdoor cats. There is not a standing chance in hell they’d willingly go on a lead. They’d panic. Also neither of them have ever had a collar on either I gave up when they kept taking them off 🤣. I think it’s irresponsible personally. One of my cats actually broke my blind when a (absolutely massive) pigeon was in the garden and she got a fright.

ElftonWednesday · 02/01/2022 15:41

It's fine if the cat likes it.

feyzer · 02/01/2022 15:44

Errol - there is a man around here who walks about with two (sometimes three) massive parrots on his shoulders.

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ErrolTheDragon · 02/01/2022 15:44

I don't think anyone has posted this yetGrin

BigWoollyJumpers · 02/01/2022 15:46

@feyzer

Sparklingbrook - I think I have seen some YouTube videos about that man (or a similar one) with his adventure cat.

Can’t he just do it by himself? What need does he have to drag the cat along?

He rescued Nala as a kitten, who was left abandoned on the side of a road. She has been with him ever since, and is therefore used to being on a lead, and riding with him on his bike.

If cats are trained from very age to go on a lead, they act pretty much like dogs.

Wife2b · 02/01/2022 15:46

Fucking hell OP what business is it of yours?? Have you never met a cat? If they don’t want to do something, they won’t. You are being ridiculous, the stories of that man with his cat and travelling are lovely, clearly the cat enjoys being with him and vice versa. You do know that cats have their own personalities don’t you, just like any dogs they could be interested in the chase or indifferent - that’s down to the pet owner to know. Some breeds are recommended to be indoor cats - that can lead to weight problems etc so yes exercise is sometimes required. I have 2 cats and no I don’t take them out for a walk but it’s not business of mine to judge those that do.

Wife2b · 02/01/2022 15:48

@feyzer

Errol - there is a man around here who walks about with two (sometimes three) massive parrots on his shoulders.
There’s no way anyone with a pedigree Bengal would allow them to be outside. They’re worth a fortune.
BigWoollyJumpers · 02/01/2022 15:48

@feyzer

Are Bengal cats more prone to walk in straight lines then and not be freaked out? The cats I see out and about have frequently looked like Bengals?
Bengals are very dog like. Mine catches and returns balls, and yes, will walk on lead.
Feelsunfair · 02/01/2022 15:48

@feyzer

Sparklingbrook - I think I have seen some YouTube videos about that man (or a similar one) with his adventure cat.

Can’t he just do it by himself? What need does he have to drag the cat along?

The cat has just as much of a right to go on adventures. She works hard. YABU.
FruitMelange · 02/01/2022 15:49

My cats go a walk with me without a lead/harness. I can't take my bins out on bin day without them thinking it's time for a walk

I too had a cat that would follow me to the shops, or the postbox or the school, and then sit and wait until I reappeared to trot home with me. There was no food or any other reward from doing this. It must have just loved me!

LethargicActress · 02/01/2022 15:50

It’s a good thing, I hope this becomes more popular. Better for cat owners to be looking after their pets and poop scooping when they’re out, rather than letting their pet out to shit in other people’s gardens, go missing or get run over.

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