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I can't take it anymore

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Melysworld · 28/12/2021 12:57

We been together for almost 10 years. I had 1 child before him and had 4 of his kids back to back we broke up permanently about 4 years ago in that time I got pregnant and had a baby by someone else. Since then I've been helping him with everything money, gave him my truck when I took all 5 kids. We ended up getting back together shortly after I had my son but it's been even worse. He's already had the tendency to hit me but now it's past that. He talks to me disrespectful lies on me constantly and gets mad if I try to stick up for myself. This morning he woke me up screaming of course cause I didn't make chicken parm lastnight before I went to sleep. I know just like he knows he wasn't gonna get up and eat it not in the morning I planned on making it for dinner. He ended up trying to throw lunch meat in my face I picked it up and threw it in his face he grabbed my laptop which I work from home threw it out the door and told me to get it so he could lock me out. I ended up being able to grab my laptop and he couldn't shut the door on me so he threw me down and I busted my knee. I can't take it anymore I wanna kill him I want him dead for everything he's done to me and my kids. He shouldn't be able to treat people like this this isn't right I can't take it anymore

OP posts:
NeverDropYourMooncup · 28/12/2021 12:59

Call the Police.

WorraLiberty · 28/12/2021 13:02

So where is he now?

Have the police given an ETA?

Where are the kids?

PotatoOfTheNight · 28/12/2021 13:02

No you absolutely cannot take this anymore. This is assault, and I agree you should call the police.

Have you any family & friends who can support you in getting rid of this prick?

shoofly · 28/12/2021 13:03

Phone the police fgs and get rid

WouldIBeATwat · 28/12/2021 13:05

I suspect the OP is not in the U.K. (“truck” and “chicken parm” being more American terminology).

StFrancisdeCompostela · 28/12/2021 13:07

Even if she’s not in the UK she still can and should call the police immediately

WouldIBeATwat · 28/12/2021 13:09

I agree 100%. Just thought it worth flagging.

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GoodKimWenceslasMumsnet · 28/12/2021 13:16

We're so sorry to hear you're going through this, OP.
We hope you don't mind, but when these threads are flagged to us we like to link to our web-guides, which we hope may be helpful. If you'd like to, please do feel free to take a look at our Domestic Violence page.

Very best wishes from all at MNHQ Flowers

WorraLiberty · 28/12/2021 13:18

@GoodKimWenceslasMumsnet, there's no link there.

Winniemarysarah · 28/12/2021 13:34

@WouldIBeATwat

I suspect the OP is not in the U.K. (“truck” and “chicken parm” being more American terminology).
What difference does it make? She still needs to phone the police and report him for domestic violence
Mamamamasaurus · 28/12/2021 13:37

Stop posting on here and call the Police. - NOW. keep this piece of shit away from you and away from your kids. I don't care if you're in the UK or bloody Siberia - he sounds unhinged and dangerous and you need to protect your children.

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Melysworld · 28/12/2021 13:41

Im not in the UK. I am in america. He left for work. Every morning is like this and he says it because he has to go out and work hard all day while i just sit here all day doing nothing. I have 6 kids and i work from home. I just feel like giving up. We just moved into a place on dec 6th. Me and my kids have nowhere to go. I have no friends anymore and even if i did i cant make ANY calls on my phone cause he smashed it again it still kinda works but im not able to make phone calls anymore. Theres more Im logged into his email on my phone and he had some emails coming up from a dating site. He said he wanted to make friends but on the things hes intrested in he checked, cuckold, full swap, gangbang, group sex and trans. And on christmas eve he brought over a "friend" that ive never seen before they we on the balcony talikng and when i opened the door they were about an inch away from eachothers face talking then immediately went apart when they seen me. I dont know whats going on but i know its not anything ive done.

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WorraLiberty · 28/12/2021 13:46

Yes but your kids though.

Do you want them to be forced into this sort of 'home life'?

Minskie24 · 28/12/2021 14:06

so he is an abusive cheat

what did the police say when you called them

WallaceinAnderland · 28/12/2021 14:49

Why won't you call the police OP?

I get that you don't care about yourself for whatever reason but why make your children suffer?

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GoodKimWenceslasMumsnet · 28/12/2021 15:21

Apologies - here is the link we meant to include with our last post:

www.mumsnet.com/webguide/domestic-violence

Mamamamasaurus · 31/12/2021 15:05

Did you call the police?

Notimeforaname · 31/12/2021 15:50

Call the police as stated many times. You must contact the authorities.

SlashBeef · 31/12/2021 15:57

Police. That's all.

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