DH goes out weekly with same group of mutual friends, I go occasionally.
Half the time he returns in reasonable condition, half the time drunk to the point of falling asleep on stairs, stumbling into kids bedrooms waking them etc
He gets irritated the next morning if I tell him it's unacceptable as we have teens in the house and I don't want them to see us "stumbling drunk"
He says they laugh at how drunk he was so it's ok. Its not. Aibu to keep saying it until it changes, I sound like a nag