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Am I a prude?

57 replies

FindingTheImpossible · 12/12/2021 19:19

A simple question really.
If you have sex on the sofa in your living room, would you clean the sofa afterwards?

My friend thinks no, I think yes. She thinks I'm being unreasonable but the idea of family/friends sitting on the sofa afterwards, to me is icky.
What are your views?

OP posts:
Mammyloveswine · 12/12/2021 21:07

I have a leather sofa....would wipe down after if needs be

JHMJHM · 12/12/2021 21:14

@findingtheimpossible - honestly, genuinely never ever talk about sex with my mates. Maybe 'conceptually' about fancying celebrities but not sharing details about where and when and how me and my husband have sex. No reason just wouldnt occur to me and think they would find it pretty cringey.

FabriqueBelgique · 12/12/2021 21:14

Bloody hell, semantics!

Can’t people just answer a question anymore?!

Offmyfence · 12/12/2021 21:18

[quote Simonjt]@Offmyfence yeah, well, either I do or he does[/quote]
What like we are going to have sec this evening, be prepared? Or I'm going to wake you up early in the morning for a shag, be ready?

Really?

That's not for me!

Simonjt · 13/12/2021 06:03

I’m not entirely sure you want the actual detail, lets just say hygiene is very important.

housemaus · 13/12/2021 09:34

@Simonjt

Doesn’t anyone just have spontaneous sex sometimes?

No, don’t think I ever have actually

This blows my mind more than the sofa issue! Never like, snuggling up together on the sofa and then it happens, or (DH's signature) halfway up the stairs? Grin
housemaus · 13/12/2021 09:36

@Simonjt

I’m not entirely sure you want the actual detail, lets just say hygiene is very important.
Ah okay yes, I'm with you now. More planning needed, that's understandable.
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