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To expect him to tell me a time?

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RainbowBriteUk · 11/12/2021 10:44

I've started seeing a very nice man. He's lovely. Comes completely free of ties but he's doing my head in!

We live around 70 miles from each other which means we arrange to meet somewhere half way. It's still early days so each others houses isn't an option yet.

Last night we were planning to meet today and I asked him for an idea of where we could meet. He said he wasn't sure so I said I'd leave it with him. He didn't come up with anything so I suggested somewhere and all was well. He drives and I don't so getting anywhere takes me time.

So the place was arranged but not a time. I'm pissed that I have to do everything and as the morning is ticking on and it takes me around 3 hours to get to the meeting place, we don't have a time set and I'm losing my rag! The event we were due to visit finishes at 4.00pm too.

I have said to him a few times that long distance probably isn't a good idea but he always is (gently) insistent that we can make it work. It's expensive and time consuming though, especially without a bloody time!!!

OP posts:
Mary46 · 12/12/2021 11:38

Hi op my friend can be like this. Bitty texts. I said last week best to say a time we all busy. See you at 1. Otherwise she 20 texts back and forth!!

RainbowBriteUk · 12/12/2021 11:47

@Aprilx who said I turned up at a random time??? No one!!! Doh!

OP posts:
dayouttobangor · 12/12/2021 12:07

A bad timekeeper is not a nice person. End the relationship.

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