Was on the phone to ex disagreeing over some contact arrangements this weekend - his partner chimes in and starts going full blown saying that she is going to take my daughter away from me, and do a better job of raising her because I’m a shit mother.
Firstly - my ex is a part time parent at best, I single handedly raise my autistic child on my own with very little help or support whilst having health issues of my own.
Secondly - she’s met my child twice and has nothing to do with her.
Thirdly - she’s never watched me parent my child, so is one to talk about me apparently being so shit.
I am so angry, especially because I’ve had a difficult start to parenthood (lost my first baby through stillbirth, had an incredibly stressful pregnancy with DD and couldn’t bond with her for the first 2 years because I was scared of losing her too) and for anyone to use my daughter against me like a weapon like that is hurtful but to hear it from her especially touched a nerve.
I can’t sleep because I am so pissed off it keeps just running round my head
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Whoever is awake please talk me down, so angry right now!
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SENmummy73848 · 05/12/2021 00:58
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