I don't have the best relationship with my mum who lives abroad. We have a 20 month old lockdown girl, who she finally met in August and a 3 week old girl. Today gifts arrived, so I called to thank her. She showed me this doll that looks like my eldest. She says she's been making clothes for it, used my daughters' shampoo on her, has cut its hair twice, and called it after my eldest. Given we see each other at best once a year, I'm finding this really creepy. AIBU?