Fat comment by MIL

[Anoart1]

Really down at the moment. Mixture of things but most recent: MIL commented that as I’m so fat now (I’m size 12) I should give her my really nice dresses as I will never fit into them again. She wants to give few of them to my SIL (SIL is older and has more than enough money to buy herself a few dresses). I politely told MIL I will lose the weight it’s just I haven’t really tried. Her response was “no you won’t, DC is nearly 2 years old now and you still fat”. I was really upset and spoke to DH whose response was well she’s right and no point keeping clothes you can’t wear anymore. Not to drip feed and give all the facts she gifted some of these to me on my wedding day as per tradition so it’s a done thing not her being “nice” it’s tradition. But I have never heard of a MIL asking back for them! My sisters think it’s hilarious of her asking and DH is not supportive. They are my clothes after all and I feel weird giving them away as MIL has decided I will never fit into them.

[NeunundneunzigHorseBallonz]

I’d donate them to charity and tell her that she was right. I was too fat and I thought they should go to someone who really needs them. Then lose the weight AND the husband and MIL and get new stuff.

[Grumpusaurus]

Oh, that's a shame OP that you accidentally put loads of laxatives in your DH's food....

[Aprilx]

Zombie!