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To give me some good break up songs!

192 replies

kelseypops · 16/11/2021 19:50

Just putting a play list together on my phone after leaving my controlling H.

Give me your best songs please! X

OP posts:
XelaM · 16/11/2021 23:19

A Little Too Late - Toby Keith (the video is hilarious Grin )

Mufflette · 16/11/2021 23:21

The Corrs - Never really loved you anyway

XelaM · 16/11/2021 23:24

Marry for Money- Trace Adkins Grin

stayignorant · 16/11/2021 23:24

Life goes on by Noah and the whale helped me through a bad break up 😄

Ledition · 16/11/2021 23:26

"I'm a survivor" by destiny's child still gets me fired up/feeling invincible when I hear it.

Cocopogo · 16/11/2021 23:28

Don’t know if it’s been said but for me it has to be Jar of Hearts by Christina Perri

Thedogscollar · 16/11/2021 23:35

@kelseypops So many to choose from.

Has anyone mentioned
Nothing Compares to You by Sinead O'Connor.

The ultimate break up song imo.

ILoveShula · 16/11/2021 23:39

@Thedogscollar, I think you missed his part of the OP
after leaving my controlling H.

WeasilyPleased · 16/11/2021 23:49

The Offspring's version of Feelings. Hilarious and very cathartic.

buckleten · 17/11/2021 00:05

You're so vain by Carly Simon, and Sexed up by Robbie Williams

Lushers · 17/11/2021 00:05

I am just coming out of almost 3 years of attempting to break away/ separation and divorcing a emotionally manipulative and bullying man and these are my songs that got me thru:

pink- blow me (one last kiss)
Lonely earth - F.U.R.B ( FU right back) stonkingly good lyrics
Nessa Barrett- I hope your miserable till your deadGrin
The corrs- I never loved you anyway
Idina menzel- let it go ( cheesy as but totes needed)
Jamelia- thank you

And ones for building me back up

Self esteem - I do this all the time
Rita Ora - grateful
Bat for lashes - laura ( coz that's my name Wink)

buckleten · 17/11/2021 00:05

Oh and as above, Jar of Hearts!

HippoRaine · 17/11/2021 00:15

Not your traditional break up songs but if you fancy a break from pop try Nine Inch Nails on LOUD, my personal favourite angry songs are Somewhat Damaged and The Wretched. Proper bassy and sweary and satisfying.

Well done for ditching the loser by the way Flowers

MrsToothyBitch · 17/11/2021 00:29

It doesn't matter any more- Buddy Holly
We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together- Taylor Swift
Go Your Own Way- Fleetwood Mac
Freedom- George Michael
So What- Pink
Fuck You - Lily Allen
Survivor- Destiny's Child
I Will Survive- Gloria Gaynor

Thedogscollar · 17/11/2021 00:43

[quote ILoveShula]@Thedogscollar, I think you missed his part of the OP
after leaving my controlling H.[/quote]
Shitting hell. Sorry OP.
Just saw breakup songs and thought of that one.
Yes all the other songs far more appropriate than mineBlush

Iveputmyselfonthenaughtystep · 17/11/2021 10:47

Viola Wills - gonna get along without you now
Hey Violet - Clean (I listened to this one a lot when I kicked my cheating ex out)

Iveputmyselfonthenaughtystep · 17/11/2021 10:50

I listened to miserable music for a bit, indulged the tears, then one day I was literally sitting on the floor crying at my mum's house and thought - nope. Not gonna do this any more. Put 'I'm still standing' on and turned to the music that I've been recommending that picked me up, dusted me off and made me feel angry and strong and like I was moving forwards. Music has so much power to steer our emotions and I refused to be that cowed, broken woman on the floor so I changed my soundtrack.

ILoveShula · 17/11/2021 10:55

Easily done, @Thedogscollar.
Beautiful song.

Someone once sent me a link to the Kaiser Chief's Every Day I Love You Less and Less.
I thought he just liked the song.

LittleMissTake · 17/11/2021 11:59

Knowing me Knowing You ABBA
Winner takes it All ABBA
Beautiful Christina Aguilera
Come up and see me, make me smile Cockney Rebel
Love is a losing game Amy Winehouse

Cas112 · 17/11/2021 12:10

Beyonce - me myself and I

Lincslady53 · 17/11/2021 12:25

Positively 4th Street, by Bob Dylan. If you don't like his voice, search for Muck Hucknalls versio n.

Babdoc · 17/11/2021 12:38

If you ever weaken and think of going back to him, play "Shut up and drive" by Chely Wright. Brilliant lyrics, and I love the video of her driving away to an opening horizon, with the abusive ex fuming in the road behind her!
Not to be confused with the totally different song with same title by Rihanna.

PinotPony · 17/11/2021 15:30

No More Drama - Mary J Blige
Hedonism - Skunk Anansie
Delilah - Florence and the Machine
That's My Girl - Fifth Harmony
I'm Outta Love - Anastasia

Lasair · 17/11/2021 19:00

Your so vain
Go our own way
You outta know
Gives you hell
You don’t own me

UthredofBattenberg · 17/11/2021 19:05

I am the resurrection by the Stone Roses

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