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Having a child is the worst thing you can do for the environment

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saveourtrees · 14/11/2021 16:15

I disagree with this wholeheartedly. My family of 7 (I will not apologise for my children's lives) create less waste than my brother and his girlfriend. In fact we take in their pet waste and food waste for composting.
Virtually all of our clothes, toys, boardgames, furniture is secondhand. A couple of white goods (does oven count as white goods?)
we grow our some of own food, process and preserve, batchcook and freeze, hardly ever use the heating (hot water bottles and blankets), bake, make dinners from scratch etc.
I knit (using wool from the charity shop), sew badly to fix holes in clothes.
we don't buy cards or wrapping paper, we do absolutely everything we can.

We still make about 1.5 black bags full of rubbish a week though, solely from food packaging. We just don't have enough to stretch to a zero waste bulk shop in the city center. But one day, when I go back to work I think we could probably manage it.

So why am I feeling guilty for having children? If it wasn't for my children I probably wouldn't have even cared as much about the environment and the state of the world. A big drive for me changing from a typical consumer to a more conscious one was the birth of my first child. Suddenly when people asked 'what world are we leaving for our children?' they were talking about my children.

I think the eco conscious people not reproducing to ''save the planet'' is stupid. If the people who care, who would teach their children to mend and say no to fast fashion, eat less meat, don't holiday abroad, etc. .. if they don't have children but the avid consumers do then isn't that worse? There will be less eco friendly grownups in 20/ 30 years but just as many grown-ups who weren't taught by their parents how to be eco friendly

I don't know, but don't come onto mumsnet and tell mums they shouldn't have had their children. That really is horrible.

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theleafandnotthetree · 22/11/2021 12:23

@MareofBeasttown

Always astonished by people who defend having children on the basis they may solve climate change or cure cancer or discover a new planet.... The chances of that are slim. Just own up to having them because you wanted them!
Oh I know, it is the weakest and most ridiculous of arguments! And also scientifically illiterate, it is vanishingly rare for one 'genius' to solve anything or discover anything, scientific breakthroughs and progress are usually the cimulative result of the impact of many people's hard woek, intelligenc3, ability to learn from errors, etc. But yeah, your daughter Meadow (Child no 5) is going to be the one to save the world Hmm
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