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To not think about Christmas until December ( lighthearted)

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Dishwashersaurous · 05/11/2021 20:43

Am I the only person on mumsnet who doesn't really give any thought to Christmas until December. Clearly, judging by the number of threads, I'm in a minority. But please tell me that I'm not the only one!

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PurpleDaisies · 05/11/2021 20:44

We’re the same. Apart from picking up occasional presents all year if I’ve seen things I think people will like, everything gets sorted in December.

mnahmnah · 05/11/2021 20:44

I might buy some of the DC’s presents before then if I see something. But otherwise no. No Christmas anything until December! Although that does mean when i go to book anything it’s already sold ouy

Sparklingbrook · 05/11/2021 20:46

YANBU. And nobody uses the Christmas topic either. Angry

Apparently once Bonfire Night is over and the John Lewis advert appears then you may as well get those sprouts on the hob asap Confused

murasaki · 05/11/2021 20:47

Me too. December is plenty of time. We (he) haven't even sorted whether we are at home or at his parents' yet. The tree doesn't come out until about the 20th, I odn't get these people who make a whole month of it, I mostly wish it didn't exist.

Dishwashersaurous · 05/11/2021 20:47

Yeah. I'm not alone.

And I agree about not being able to book anything. Oh well (whisper it I hate panto as well)

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murasaki · 05/11/2021 20:47

Ha, Sparkling, as kids, we and my mum used to joke that my granny put the veg on in October.

Ihopeyourcakeisshit · 05/11/2021 20:48

Count me in!

AdoptedBumpkin · 05/11/2021 20:48

I have begun to think about presents, but won't be playing Christmas songs or decorating until December.

Dishwashersaurous · 05/11/2021 20:49

I sometimes wish that I was American and then there would be thanksgiving.

Yes. No one in the families even has a conversation about who goes where until December either. So every year I'm surprised about the angst threads which appear seemingly in the summer

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Sparklingbrook · 05/11/2021 20:52

@murasaki

Ha, Sparkling, as kids, we and my mum used to joke that my granny put the veg on in October.
Grin
Sparklingbrook · 05/11/2021 20:53

The year has 12 months in it, why let Christmas take up a whole two of them? It doesn't make sense.

bigbluebus · 05/11/2021 20:54

Christmas doesn't start to happen until after DS's birthday, at least, in this house - which is exactly 1 month before Christmas day.

HeyFloof · 05/11/2021 21:06

Dh doesn't think about Christmas till Christmas eve Grin

I fucking LOVE it though, Its my happy place. And I like spreading the cost. I've just checked and toys that were £11 in August are now £16+.

SliceOfCakeCupOfTea · 05/11/2021 21:07

I buy all presents well in advance but that's because birthdays are either side of Christmas day so I have to be prepared.

Decs, jumpers, events all happen in mid December

Boofay · 05/11/2021 21:15

Tell me you're not a Christmas person without telling me you're not a Christmas person. ⬆️⬆️⬆️

Some of us like Christmas. I've been desperate to start watching the Netflix Christmas movies but I've held off so far. Decorations are going up on the 28th Nov. Come at me. I don't give a Fa La La La La! 🎄🎁🎅🏼

😜

Dishwashersaurous · 05/11/2021 21:16

Genuine question for those that present shop in the summer.

  1. How do you know that the person won't have bought it already by then; and
  2. How do you know that someone will still want it six months down the line?

I tend to buy, and receive books. I will have bought at least a dozen books between the summer and Christmas .

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Sparklingbrook · 05/11/2021 21:19

I think it's risky to buy anything too early in the year.

DappledThings · 05/11/2021 21:19

I'm with you OP. Apart from making Christmas pudding because that has to happen on Stir-Up Sunday, I do not start thinking about Christmas till December.

DC have started to mention toys but even now I'm not sure anything they mention now will still be popular. Don't think anything they were into in August would have been worth buying and still popular now.

Sparklingbrook · 05/11/2021 21:21

My two DC were very fickle as small children, and would frequently change their minds as to what they wanted Father Christmas to bring. Right up to the week before Christmas. Hmm

HeyFloof · 05/11/2021 21:31

@Dishwashersaurous

Genuine question for those that present shop in the summer.
  1. How do you know that the person won't have bought it already by then; and
  2. How do you know that someone will still want it six months down the line?

I tend to buy, and receive books. I will have bought at least a dozen books between the summer and Christmas .

My ds is 4 turning 5. He doesn't watch TV with adverts in so doesn't know what "exists" if that makes sense. His main present this year is a bike, he's grown out of his current one and it's his favourite thing so I've been steering him towards asking FC for it since about July.

But generally, I tend to buy the filler presents throughout the year and then the FC requests are from the argos/smyths catalogue and I buy those once he's chosen and done the list.

Dishwashersaurous · 05/11/2021 21:46

Hey.

That makes sense. I was thinking more of people who say I bought x for aunty sue in July.

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stargirl1701 · 05/11/2021 21:47

Nope, you are not alone.

shivermetimbers77 · 05/11/2021 21:50

I hate all this Christmas stuff in November: it’s ridiculous, overly commercialised overkill. Christmas countdown should start with advent on December 1st and Mariah Carey , Wizard and particularly bloody Slade should be banned until then! (Bah humbug)

LadyTiredWinterBottom2 · 05/11/2021 21:50

One of my mates has bought all her presents already!

romany4 · 05/11/2021 21:53

Yabu

I start thinking about and buying little bits for Christmas in September.
I bloody love Christmas