Yesterday we went on a school tour for my child, who will start primary school next September. There were about six or seven other parents on the tour. The tour was done by the school secretary. When we got to one of the classrooms it was obvious from the outside (glass door) that the children in it were getting changed for PE, they were all in various states of undress including some just in pants. I assumed we'd turn back and go the other way (going through this classroom was the quickest but not the only way to the reception classroom) but to my astonishment the secretary breezed into the room and gave the same spiel as the other classrooms - 'this is year 3, they're doing gymnastics, they do this once a week' etc. The class teacher said, very weakly, 'it's not really an ideal time...' but that was it. So we all, a group of strange adults, were standing watching these children get changed. DH and I discussed it afterwards and he was quite shocked; he's a teacher (but secondary) and thought that a) it shouldn't have happened and b) safeguarding is usually such a top priority for a school that it seems a bit troubling that neither of the staff present thought this was wrong or were alert to it. It's left me feeling a bit uneasy about the school - AIBU to feel this way, am I being a bit precious about it?