but nobody seriously suggested that Harry is a card-carrying bona fide racist then, or now.
I don’t want to make this not about the YCCC, but this does go to the point about banter. Comments like this refer to the sliding scale of racism, from KKK/lynching level racism to overhearing someone call you a P* on the bus. @Otherpeoplesteens, you’re effectively saying ‘at least this wasn’t KKK-level’ racism. It wasn’t. And?
GBH isn’t as bad as murder. And?
Groping on the dance floor isn’t as bad as sexual assault at knifepoint. And?
Why should someone be allowed to make another suffer, however much or little, because they’re having fun, or are ignorant, or just want to?
Racism is such a complex thing. There are few clear boundaries EXCEPT that it’s unacceptable in all forms, at all times. There’s no excuse for it. Plenty of meaningless explanations, but no excuses.
There was also never any excuse for it decades ago. It’s absolute bullshit people saying some things were acceptable decades ago and should be judged in their historical context. Acceptable for the perpetrators’ consciences maybe, but it was NEVER okay to the victims or to those who fought against it. Further, anti-racism isn’t a modern invention. People have been anti-racist since the beginning of people, they just have a louder voice at this moment in time.
Racism in Zimbabwe and Zambia are multi-fold more complex than in the U.K., given the massively different historical context. Still, there is no excuse for it. Period.
It’s never okay to sexually abuse someone just a little bit, or not too badly, or as a joke. Equally, it’s never okay to racially abuse someone just a little bit, or not too badly, or as a joke. Coming from a ‘good family’ changes nothing. Being friends changes nothing (look up statistics on marital rape). There’s a single hard line, and it’s NO. NEVER. IT’S NEVER OKAY.