I've got a 8 years old son he is my only child and I love him so much. His father has never been involved in his life , I met him in 2012 when he just relocated to manchetser for work. He lied to me that he single and he had no children. We dated for 4 months only I find out that I was pregnant.
I have informed him about the pregnancy which he denied and said he wanted nothing to do with me because he had a wife and kids. It was a shocked to me about his marital status and I couldn't believe that he had lied to me and he denied the pregnancy. He blocked me and I didn't heard back from him again. I've raised my son alone and I am proud to have him as a son he is the best thing that ever happened to me. But it wasn't until March this year I was on Facebook and a friend suggestion came up and it was my son father profile. Even taught he has been 9 years since I have last seen him but I've recognised him easily because he hasn't changed at all apart from he now have short hair cut and I checked his profile I saw the pictures of him, his wife and seven children i was shocked why would a man with such a beautiful family could pretend to be a single man and cheat on his wife , its a pity that poor woman had no ideas she married a monster and she had a stepson somewhere in the UK. Well I've contacted him to tell him about our son even taught he took about 2 weeks for him to reply back , he was still adamant he is not the father. I've told him because I am 1000% sure about it and if he still doubting it he can pay for dna. I didn't heard anything from him for about 3 weeks until he had messaged me for the dna date , adress and time. We went for the dna all the way to Swindon the journey was so long but had to do it for my son sake I just wanted him to have a father in his life. He met my son for the first time in May apart from hello he didn't even say anything else to our son . We have got the result of the dna which he is the biological father. It took him two weeks to contact me after the result . He said that his wife is aware of the situation and he wanted me to bring my son to Swindon where he lives so he can meet him and introduced himself as his father . I refused because the distance was long I live in Manchester I don't drive but he drive its shorter by car .
I asked him to come over with his wife so we can meet in a public place but he refused. So we both had an disagreement and he stop talking to me for months and I have move on I didn't care less whether he want to be in my son life or not because I have been taking care of him myself and we are doing fine and I taught it was OK to give him a second change to be in his son life but since he wasn't interested I didn't bother with him again.
Then in August he contacted me again asking for my number and we spoke on the phone for the first time because our previous conversation was via Facebook messenger. He said he was sorry for not contacting me for a long time , he was in shocked because he never thought in his life that he was gonna cheat on his wife and father a child outside. Everything is new to him that he is trying his best to be in my son life and he also said I can contact him anytime I needed anything for our son. Honestly I don't need any money from him because I am a self employed I make a lot of money and my son doesn't lack anything but all I wanted from him is to have a relationship with his son nothing else.
I have asked him if he wanted to speak to our son he said no he will ring him another day but he never , he rang back a month after to ask if we are doing well and he refused to speak with his son again making excuses that he will ring another day. He never ring back until a month again same thing he spoke with me without speaking to our son.
He promised to ring him on half term is already half term but no phone call. Well I've had enough of him not wanting to speak to his son my son he is aware of him but he doesn't really care much about it . I want to block him from Facebook and phone so we can forget about him because he is not interested on his son and I don't see why I should keep answering his calls when he doesn't want him it is his lost not mine . Should I block him or not please I need your advice.