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Next door neighbour watching me

65 replies

GLAD67 · 25/10/2021 23:33

My next door moved in a few weeks ago. However, when i was in the garden i noticed she was taking photos of me from her kitchen window. I find this very strange and uncomfortable. To make matters worse i have right of way through her garden and dont want a photoshoot everytime i am in my garden minding my own buisness.

OP posts:
Fanackapansy · 26/10/2021 12:09

The next time she says hello, act surprised and say “oh I remember you, you’re the one who used to stick her used sanitary towels on people at school…” give her a disgusted/confused laugh and walk away.

It won’t help but it might make you feel better.

KloppsTeeth · 26/10/2021 12:19

@Fanackapansy

The next time she says hello, act surprised and say “oh I remember you, you’re the one who used to stick her used sanitary towels on people at school…” give her a disgusted/confused laugh and walk away.

It won’t help but it might make you feel better.

This!
Bluntness100 · 26/10/2021 14:20

Op is it possible she wasn’t photographing you but her garden, and is it possible when she smiled and said hello she was just being nice?

WTF475878237NC · 26/10/2021 15:25

In that case I'd say once a bitch always a bitch. Keep your distance!

nitsandwormsdodger · 26/10/2021 15:29

Yes ...why did your thread not start with the CRUCIAL info that a known old school nasty sick bully who stuck/threw her used sanitary product at people has moved in next door to you ...?????

The info that she may be taking photos of you from the neck up in your garden is secondary info

GabriellaMontez · 26/10/2021 15:35

My MIL takes bird photos. My teens take sunrise and sky photos. It's very hard to know where someone is focusing. I think you may be paranoid. But I would ask her straight out. "I know it sounds weird but what were you photograph ing yesterday" ?

ZingDramaQueenOfSheeba · 26/10/2021 15:36

In the dictionary entry of "drip feeding" they should include this thread

LadyJaye · 26/10/2021 15:41

Holy shit, this went from from 0-100mph quickly.

FleasInMyKnees · 26/10/2021 15:42

I wouldnt bother with the right of way unless it's for the bins or emergency access.

CSIblonde · 26/10/2021 18:38

Agree she was prob sending your pic to a friend saying look who I've moved next door to. Don't take any more parcels in & limit your time in the shared access space. The throwing used tampons thing is off the scale weird. And my DM was House Mistress at a private girls boarding school where all sorts went on so I know weird (10 year old delib starting fires was just one instance).

Oh4Tunas · 26/10/2021 19:45

Given her past behaviour (disgusting, btw!), I'd do my best to ignore and avoid her. Live your life as thought she doesn't even exist, as far as possible.

BillinaTheChickenQueen · 26/10/2021 19:51

Well this is all a bit confusing and strange to say the least.
OP your posting style sounds familiar.
I think I recognise you from other threads.
Are you sure this is the same person, and are you sure she used to Chuck tampons at people and it’s not just some wired high school rumour. People used to say all sorts in my school, none of it was true.

BillinaTheChickenQueen · 26/10/2021 19:54

Are you sure this is the same person, and are you sure she used to Chuck tampons at people
A sentence I didn’t think I would type today. Grin

Noavocado · 26/10/2021 20:22

@BillinaTheChickenQueen

Are you sure this is the same person, and are you sure she used to Chuck tampons at people A sentence I didn’t think I would type today. Grin
Grin
Bluntness100 · 26/10/2021 21:39

@CSIblonde

Agree she was prob sending your pic to a friend saying look who I've moved next door to. Don't take any more parcels in & limit your time in the shared access space. The throwing used tampons thing is off the scale weird. And my DM was House Mistress at a private girls boarding school where all sorts went on so I know weird (10 year old delib starting fires was just one instance).
Oh cmon, you’re leaping as high as the op.
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