Ok so I’m posting here for traffic but it might be tmi so I apologise in advance. I was hoping for a few different people’s perspectives as I don’t know what to think.
Ok so me and my dh are having some issues in the bedroom. I know that over the years you can have the odd blip but we never really have not until now at least. Basically, and like I said I’m sorry if this is tmi, my dh keeps losing his erection when we go to have sex. I know this can happen every now and again and it’s usually no big deal but it’s happening like all the time now. What I don’t get though is when we are fooling around dh doesn’t have a problem getting or keeping an erection but the moment we go to dtd he looses it. I haven’t made a huge deal about it as I don’t want him to feel bad, but deep down I’m frustrated. FWIW He’s 45, I’m 40. He’s not overweight, doesn’t drink to excess, is relatively fit etc so I doubt it’s anything medical, especially when you factor in he can get and keep an erection when we are doing other things. So yeah I’m not sure what’s going on. I’ve asked him if he’s ok and he assures me our sex life (when we have it) is great and I have to agree it’s always been good. That’s what’s frustrating. This has been going on for about 3 months now and although we are both satisfied in general with the intimacy between us we are both frustrated due the lack of sex. AIBU to think it’s either me or if it’s not me my dh knows what is going on with him but he doesn’t want to say?