I had a ‘hook’ nose which I never liked and had rude comments on over the years. A year ago I had nose filler and I was so happy with the results, it gave me so much confidence.
My boyfriend didn’t understand it at all and thinks I should just love my natural nose. I do understand, but it’s easy to say when you are happy with your own nose.
Anyway the filler is wearing off and the bump is returning, but we’re trying to save for a house deposit.
As well as this, I had my hair cut into a pixie cut which just looks like a mushroom. I have had short hair for a while but never this short. I’m usually happy with my hair but this cut is just not flattering, I’m scraping it back with headbands and clips and considering getting a wig.
Have also wanted to go blonde for a while (dark brown naturally). Bf thinks this won’t suit me and that I should just love my natural colour.
I do like my natural colour, I’d just like to try blonde as I think it would look nice. I am also quite grey now despite being 30 but he sees me using hair dye as pointless. Even a hairdresser told me that I have quite a lot of grey so I’m not imagining it.
I don’t begrudge anyone having anything done if it makes them happier. Obviously there are extremes, I think it’s sad that people change their entire face and become addicted to surgery, it’s a shame. I am happy with myself on a whole and like the majority of what I have.
I do feel happier with a straighter nose and I just don’t like my original one. My partner really disagrees with it. We just can’t agree on it. He works with very beautiful women who, I’m sure have their own insecurities. However it’s hard sometimes to not compare myself, even if I know he loves me, I know he finds them attractive as he’s told me in one way or another.
Has anyone ever had these disagreements? Would you just get the filler/hair dye if it made you feel better ?