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what you think of halloween?

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adam7485 · 24/10/2021 18:40

. ok. halloween can be a fantastic time for all people kids and everyone, but am i the only person to think it brings the worst out of people? 2019 before covid i got a taxi to a local pub who were having a halloween party and we almost had a nasty accident as some kids threw something in front of the car. how we didn't have an accident was probably more luck than judgement. to think that a good celebration and fun has become tainted by the actions of a certain group of people?

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Hawkins001 · 26/10/2021 18:59

"Halloween or Hallowe'en (a contraction of "All Hallows' evening"),[5] also known as Allhalloween,[6] All Hallows' Eve,[7] or All Saints' Eve,[8] is a celebration observed in many countries on 31 October, the eve of the Western Christian feast of All Hallows' Day. It begins the observance of Allhallowtide,[9] the time in the liturgical year dedicated to remembering the dead, including saints (hallows), martyrs, and all the departed.[10][11]

One theory holds that many Halloween traditions were influenced by Celtic harvest festivals, particularly the Gaelic festival Samhain, which are believed to have pagan roots;[12][13][14][15] some go further and suggest that Samhain may have been Christianized as All Hallow's Day, along with its eve, by the early Church.[16] Other academics believe Halloween began solely as a Christian holiday, being the vigil of All Hallow's Day.[17][18][19][20] Celebrated in Ireland and Scotland, in the 19th century, Irish and Scottish migrants brought many Halloween customs to North America,[21][22] and then through American influence, Halloween spread to many other countries by the 21st century.[23][24]

Halloween activities include trick-or-treating (or the related guising and souling), attending Halloween costume parties, carving pumpkins into jack-o'-lanterns, lighting bonfires, apple bobbing, divination games, playing pranks, visiting haunted attractions, telling scary stories, as well as watching horror films.[25] For some people, the Christian religious observances of All Hallows' Eve, including attending church services and lighting candles on the graves of the dead, remain popular,[26][27][28] although for others it is a secular celebration.[29][30][31] Some Christians historically abstained from meat on All Hallows' Eve, a tradition reflected in the eating of certain vegetarian foods on this vigil day, including apples, potato pancakes, and soul cakes.[32][33][34][35]"

Thats from wikipedia

FourTeaFallOut · 26/10/2021 19:02

Sometimes people do mischief night the day before Halloween too. Apparently it's hard to get a consensus out of the type of people who egg houses and torch things for sport Grin

It's not just the North and the Midlands, it's also in parts of Ireland, Scotland, America and Canada although the name varies sometimes. See above.

FourTeaFallOut · 26/10/2021 19:05

And all I'm saying is that this anti-social behaviour may have more to do with the tradition of mischief night than children being encultured by parents to be thugs as teens just by repeating the words "trick or treat".

Proudboomer · 26/10/2021 19:15

I think it has just become another way to sell people plastic tat.
Orange pumpkin buckets, inflatable pumpkins, plastic skeletons,, skulls and tombstones, plastic Halloween themed tableware and polyester costumes. The list is pretty much endless and just clever marketing to part you from your cash,

londontonyc · 26/10/2021 19:25

I didn't really pay much attention to Halloween - kids dressed up and we carved pumpkins but they were too young to go trick or treating.

Then we moved to New York, and It's impossible to not get swept up in the excitement about Halloween. I've seen some incredible house decorations the past few weeks and on Sunday we'll have a huge party with roads closed, food and drink and trick or treaters galore. Fantastic 😊🎃

We'll move back and it'll never be the same again! One thing I'll miss for sure.

BeautyQueenIamNot · 26/10/2021 19:28

We live rurally so don’t get much bother!

I do a Halloween 🎃 party and invite my dc school friends - it’s fun, sadly last year and this year (might be off due to covid) we haven’t had one

CatsArePeople · 26/10/2021 19:29

Not fussed at all.
But my kids love it.

DrCoconut · 26/10/2021 20:29

Egging must still be an issue because some shops here don't sell eggs to teenagers under 16 or 18 (depending on the shop's policy) in the lead up to Halloween and mischief night. Mischief night has declined in popularity a lot since I was little in the early 80s. The police then used to put out appeals to people to be considerate of the elderly and vulnerable as people used to actually get hurt.

Offmyfence · 26/10/2021 20:31

@Ajl46

I've never understood why we encourage trick or treating - it's basically extortion.
😂 😆 😂

Log it with 101!

SickofCovid · 26/10/2021 20:41

Actually hate it. Hated it as a kid. Hated it as a Mum, horrible filthy night, with bonfires and bangers.

shouldistop · 26/10/2021 20:47

@SickofCovid bonfires and bangers? Are you thinking of guy fawkes?

Offmyfence · 26/10/2021 21:01

@SickofCovid

Actually hate it. Hated it as a kid. Hated it as a Mum, horrible filthy night, with bonfires and bangers.
It's Halloween not guy fawkes!
KurtWildeWitchOfTheWoods · 26/10/2021 21:21

Love it, always have. I've been getting my house spooky since the end of September 🎃

TasteTheMeatNotTheHeat · 26/10/2021 23:52

We're having a Halloween party this Sunday for DC and all of their friends. We're carving the pumpkins tomorrow. The kids are so excited! Can't wait. And I've got plenty of biscuits in for the trick or treaters.

It's one of my favourite holidays, second only to Christmas.

TasteTheMeatNotTheHeat · 26/10/2021 23:54

horrible filthy night

What do you mean? How is it filthy?!

RAFHercules · 27/10/2021 00:02

Love it, our whole village gets involved. I'm talking lasers, spooky music and smoke machines.
People stand outside their houses and chat whilst giving out the sweets. Our elderly neighbours even complain if not enough children visit!

mathanxiety · 27/10/2021 04:18

Per the article it's a north / midlands tradition, rather than a national one.

Mischief Night, aka Devil's Night, used to be a big thing in Detroit and Philadelphia.

Up to about the 1980s, Hallowe'en used to mean a few days and nights of mischief in cities all over the US. There was lots of egging, flouring, waxing car windows, TPing trees, etc.

I may be wrong on this but it seems to me the reason to have Mischief Night on 30 October or 4 November may be something to do with whether an area swung protestant or RC in the Reformation or if there was an influx of RC immigrants during the 1800s/1900s.

mathanxiety · 27/10/2021 04:21

Great! What have I won?

A pumpkin to leave to rot outside my house? Some sweets to give to the local spoilt brats? Some eggs to throw at my neighbours?

A lifesize cardboard cutout (fully compostable) of Ebenezer Scrooge.

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SickofCovid · 27/10/2021 13:23

I'm in Ireland. We don't celebrate guy fawkes. On Halloween night here they do bonfires and bangers as well as trick or treat. When I say it's a filthy night what I mean is, it's dark, the smell of fire in the air, its normally damp or wet out, the noise of the bangers is unreal and it goes on all night. Awful.

GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 27/10/2021 13:30

@Offmyfence

How about totting up how much you've spent on useless plastic tat for one evening this year?

I was asked for my opinion. I gave it. If you don't like it just ignore it. You don't have to act like a rude twat.

TheKeatingFive · 27/10/2021 13:37

How about totting up how much you've spent on useless plastic tat for one evening this year?

Me personally, £2.99.

So you've never spent £2.99 on something you didn't strictly need but you enjoyed?

TheKeatingFive · 27/10/2021 13:38

You don't have to act like a rude twat.

You kinda set the tone there, in fairness.

GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 27/10/2021 13:43

How about surgery to remove the stick from your arse?

No, I think I was defending myself, in fairness.

Anyway, you lot enjoy your Halloweens.