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Food banks

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Parker231 · 23/10/2021 19:01

www.trusselltrust.org/get-involved/ways-to-give/donate-food/

Posted in AIBU for traffic.

I’m a volunteer at a local foodbank. We are getting desperately short of donations and run the risk of not being able to help those who need it.
I’ve attached the link to search for what your local foodbank needs (everyone is different as to what stocks they have). If you are doing your shopping tomorrow, it would be very helpful if you could add a couple of items for the foodbank. Thank you

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OVienna · 24/10/2021 21:30

Done. Thanks for the prompt.

HoardingSamphireSaurus · 24/10/2021 21:57

Oh! Someone mentioned fod for people with specific diets, like coeliac etc.

Check with your local bank. Sometimes very specific foods don't have a very long use by date and some can go to waste, depending on who is using the bank at any given time. I know that when our daily bag was designed, like every other daily bag, there were a variety of alternative diets catered for - diabetic, coeliac, vegetarian and vegan being the obvious ones.

I know that we have a local supermarket that usually supplies Free From type stuff if we ask. Other food banks have similar agreements with their local shops.

You can donate anything you want. Yep! We may not be able to add it to the bags but we have a much used Help Yourself Shelf for all the 'off list' items and our local allotment group makes a lovely display under it. We try and make sure everyone leaves with something from the display, but we can't push. We often have no idea what facilities our clients have.

Having said that, the young family that only had a kettle for a few weeks and was living off anything that you only had to add hot water to was doing really well, being very imaginative with food plans. Over last autumn / winter they were taking all the light vegetables, leafy stuff, peas etc and adding it to cans of lentils and beans. They took all the sauces, oil based sice mixes we had too. They'd hold it in a couple of large thermos flasks until it all warmed through.

We managed to get a few weird pudding packets for them, semolina, custard that kind of thing. The eldest child wrote a How To booklet for us, and some of those puddings are really, really nice, once you add chocolate chips etc to them!

Makes you feel really, really small sometimes!

Becca19962014 · 24/10/2021 22:06

@HoardingSamphireSaurus I was the one mentioning specific diets. Ours won’t accept short dated food (four months minimum) and our shops won’t help out, it’s good yours do though!

We do have charities where I live that use up short dated foods in free meals e.g. Salvation Army cook for homeless on different days with these foods so they don’t go to waste.

HunterHearstHelmsley · 24/10/2021 22:13

I donate to my local food bank, rather than to my closest Trussell one. Obviously they need food too but I think it's important to remember that not all food banks come under a 'chain'.

HoardingSamphireSaurus · 24/10/2021 22:16

I think we only accept them because we are part of a wider group of community charities that includes a soup kitchen and a couple of refuges. If we weren't I doubt we'd take much if any short dated stuff - and that's with having been gifted a fully shelved container unit recently.

Anything that we have that gets to about 3 months, and all our fruit/veg that has been with us a couple of days, gets sent on to a kitchen for use there. This month we are drowning them in squash, pupkns etc. The soup kitchen sent us back a few gallons of soup, in urns and with mugs. So we have been offering Soup While You Wait for about a week. We get to use dishwashers in a couple of nearby cafes so we don't often get caught short of a clean cup Smile

I'm not sure that we are at all usual though. We are quite rural and the food bank started way back in the 70s for seasonal workers and much later as a replacement Meals on Wheels service.

LittleOwl153 · 24/10/2021 23:28

@gogohm it is about simple to prep calorific food as pp said. But is also about storage. Our storage is in a warehouse style self store... we would cannot store fresh produce in there - the rats would eat it first! We do take a small amount of fresh food - often bread/veg from specific sources but we know how much is coming in and what we can use. Because disposal is another cost that can really mount up.

TheWayTheLightFalls · 25/10/2021 02:08

Anything that we have that gets to about 3 months, and all our fruit/veg that has been with us a couple of days, gets sent on to a kitchen for use there.

By comparison I run a food bank and the overwhelming majority of stock isn’t donations but supermarket excess - ie we receive things the day before/day of expiry. A tonne a week Confused! I love it but my god sometimes I long for tins of beans and dried pasta.

sashh · 25/10/2021 04:55

We would love to see bags for life.... and there was a previous poster who said they were only asking for BfL - you may well live in our area. If you see a request for squash and fruit juice in the next couple of days you are.....

What about plastic bags? Since the start of the pandemic I have had my shopping delivered, Iceland put everything in strong plastic bags but don't take them back.

My carer has taken some for recycling but I have a cupboard full and they would survive a lot of shopping trips.

TheWayTheLightFalls · 25/10/2021 05:51

sassh - ours would love them. Iceland snd Ocado are particular favourites for durability.

sashh · 25/10/2021 07:04

@TheWayTheLightFalls

Thanks I'll find out today. I often feel bad because I'm on a low income so can't donate much or often.

TheWayTheLightFalls · 25/10/2021 07:07

sassh if not (though I suspect they will, very gladly) I'd be happy to pay you to post them to us if your circumstances allow. We often end up having to buy carrier bags.

sashh · 25/10/2021 07:30

@TheWayTheLightFalls that's a kind offer, thank you. I have emailed the one closest to me to ask but I don't expect an answer until later today.

Roystonv · 25/10/2021 08:07

To the poster who mentioned donating apples and tutted at puddings from their lofty tower of healthy eating give it a break. These people are on their beam ends, they need warming, filling, easy to cook meals and yes for them a sweet bowl of comfort food. It is not just about having something to eat for many. Imagine learning that today you will get pudding as well as a savoury course. How much of a treat that would be. As another poster said about the family only having a kettle you have no idea of their circumstances.

sashh · 25/10/2021 08:14

@gogohm

Here they are asking for just tinned sponge puddings, custard and creamed rice, to be honest junk we can do without. I wish we could donate healthy food like apples which are good at being kept
Yes after 2 days of not eating the thing you are looking forward to is an apple. That will be a real treat for a family of four.
saraclara · 25/10/2021 08:19

Not to mention that apples are not easy to deal with, store and repack several times. They bruise really easily.

MakkaPakkas · 25/10/2021 08:22

I usually do the £10 'you give we give' thing on ocado, but there's also a collection on my street each week. If I'm a bit limited which is better OP?

Parker231 · 25/10/2021 08:24

Thank you to everyone who has continued to donate and has donated this weekend.
Where I volunteer we have had stocks boosted by harvest festival donations from local schools but based on the increased demand it won’t last long. We are trying to build up additional stocks to ensure the Christmas food bags are as good as possible and that no one goes without. A pack of nice biscuits makes everyone’s day better?

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YoungGiftedPlump · 25/10/2021 08:40

Our Trussell Trust are appalling -they speak about their clients in a demeaning way- the undeserving poor approach. They are also based in an evangelical church.

We have a local church who are great- worked with them through 1st lockdown- they feed those the Trussell Trust won't help-basically everyone needy in our town.

TreborBore · 25/10/2021 08:47

I don’t understand why people feel the need to buy food to donate to a food bank. If you donate money, the volunteers can purchase what their clients need in bulk at wholesale prices. Or offer credit for someone’s gas meter, or a voucher to buy nappies, etc.

SnoopyLights · 25/10/2021 08:58

@Judystilldreamsofhorses

Re pet food, we have a fussy cat and took loads of rejected wet food pouches to the local food bank. They were unopened but not boxed (she had decided to eat three of the four flavours in a box for quite some time) so we weren’t sure if they would want them, but the staff/volunteers were delighted. The woman I spoke to said often people - particularly elderly folk living alone - will go without themselves to feed their pets. (Who as pp pointed out were probably around prior to a change in circumstance.)
I've had experience of this as well, my job brings me into contact with people who need food bank and fuel poverty support, and time and again I've met pet owners who, when I've offered them a food voucher, have said that if it's a choice between food for themselves or food for their pet, they would rather have the pet food. Thankfully, we can usually get pet food as well if we ask for it.

I think we have two or three Trussell food banks here, but we have a lot of independent places also offering food parcels. I donate now to one who never turns a person in need away, no matter how many times they have previously needed food support, and this is the one I have the most regular contact with, but I will try and put something extra in the Trussell basket at the supermarket as well this week (including some pet food).

saraclara · 25/10/2021 09:29

@TreborBore

I don’t understand why people feel the need to buy food to donate to a food bank. If you donate money, the volunteers can purchase what their clients need in bulk at wholesale prices. Or offer credit for someone’s gas meter, or a voucher to buy nappies, etc.
It's psychology. I don't feel the need to try to unpick it, but providing food is a primal instinct. It's what keeps us and our families alive. People are far more likely to give food than to give the same amount and value in money to someone standing in the supermarket collecting for the TT to actually buy the food itself..

It might not be logical, but fundraisers have to operate in whatever way they can, to best provide for the people who need it.

Personally I hate the sentimental and patronising TV ads for some charities. But I have to stomach them because somewhere the charities' research has shown that these are the kinds of ads that actually bring the money in to help people.

50ShadesOfCatholic · 25/10/2021 09:53

@TreborBore

I don’t understand why people feel the need to buy food to donate to a food bank. If you donate money, the volunteers can purchase what their clients need in bulk at wholesale prices. Or offer credit for someone’s gas meter, or a voucher to buy nappies, etc.
It's control issues, god forbid poor people should choose their own food.
slashlover · 25/10/2021 10:39

@TreborBore

I don’t understand why people feel the need to buy food to donate to a food bank. If you donate money, the volunteers can purchase what their clients need in bulk at wholesale prices. Or offer credit for someone’s gas meter, or a voucher to buy nappies, etc.
I'm on a low income but like to buy a few bits while I'm at the supermarket - a couple of packets of mash or pasta and sauce. Depending on the time of the month, I may only have £1 spare to spend. It seems a bit off to bank transfer £1 to them. I do always check their facebook page to see what is needed most that week.
Becca19962014 · 25/10/2021 10:41

I donate when I can simply because I’ve needed the help. Our food bank won’t accept financial donations. Never have. Every Christmas I buy two bags of Christmas food for the food bank and label it as such (for those in need over Christmas), and if I can’t find any that’s alcohol free (literally only thing they won’t accept) then I’ll clearly label food as such.

mustlovegin · 25/10/2021 11:00

I donate food to my church directly. Thanks OP for the reminder