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Huge mass in breast aibu to go to a&e ? **Diagnosis in and treatment underway for the OP** Title edited by MNHQ

721 replies

needabitof · 14/10/2021 06:56

Last week I went to the doctors - my right breast has a big mass in it that has appeared in the previous week.
He checked my liver, lymph nodes, so I know what he's thinking, and referred me to the breast clinic under the 14 day rule. Except it isn't 14 days, it's over three weeks before you can be seen. The gp can do nothing to speed things up apparently.
I thought I need to pay for a private mammogram, it's £400. I'm desperate - imagining the worst constantly.
Managed to get a referral sent by the gp to the private hospital, only to be told they're breast clinic has been cancelled for the next three weeks.
Aibu to go to a&e to get some medical advice or wait? The mass is getting bigger and painful each day.
What would you do? Thanks in advance.

OP posts:
mibbelucieachwell · 29/10/2021 18:39

I'm sorry to read your update. Is your mind in a whirl?

I had every possible sort of treatment for bowel cancer and found it very helpful to mentally 'tick off' each step of the treatment. The scans, op, chemo etc. Having a clear idea of your situation is so useful.

Staryflight445 · 29/10/2021 19:07

I’m so sorry op, I wish you a speedy recovery after your ops x

BiLuminous · 29/10/2021 19:14

I'm sorry to read this OP. I hope it all goes well.

BlueSuffragette · 29/10/2021 19:24

So sorry to hear it is cancer.Flowers Best wishes with your treatment OP. xx

Chinam · 29/10/2021 19:27

Sorry to hear that. I hope your treatment goes well.

CovidCorvid · 29/10/2021 19:31

Rubbish update OP, sorry to read it. But sounds like you've hopefully caught it early.

JacketPotatoQueen · 29/10/2021 19:39

Just wanted to say I’m sorry too.

curiouscatgotkilled · 29/10/2021 19:42

So sort to hear this update ☹️ well done for pushing those drs to see you. I so hope they can sort this out for you as quickly as possible.

Dappled · 29/10/2021 19:43

Really sorry to hear this. Well done for pushing to get seen and I'm really glad to hear that the care is good. Sending love Flowers

LazyDaisy22 · 29/10/2021 19:46

Sorry to see your update OP. Thank goodness you pushed to investigate. Best wishes for your operation 💐

hellywelly3 · 29/10/2021 19:50

@needabitof I’m so sorry to read that’s it’s cancer. Sending lots of love and good luck your way

Pottedpalm · 29/10/2021 20:06

Wishing you well. Waiting to get started was the worst part for me. 🌸

Wagsandclaws · 29/10/2021 20:16

Ah shit OP I was hoping that want the case.

Ok well sounds like the cogs are turning at the pace they need to be re the nhs.

I'm ever so sorry to read this update but am wishing you the very best with your upcoming treatment Thanks

CatherinaJTV · 29/10/2021 20:21

so sorry to read that update. Good on you for insisting to be seen so quickly. I hope you have a great surgical and after care team and all will be well!

LuluJakey1 · 29/10/2021 20:23

I have been thinking about you and hoping you were going to get good news. I'm so sorry it wasn't. I hope the next few months of treatment go really well for you. My mam had a mastectomy and made a really good recovery and needed no further treatment except a tamoxifen tablet- I wish you a similarly good outcome.

Daisy62 · 29/10/2021 20:27

Well done for pushing to be seen, OP, early diagnosis makes a difference. Sorry to hear your news, but wishing you all the best with your treatment.

episcomama · 29/10/2021 20:28

I'm sorry to hear that. Best of luck to you.

BlackeyedSusan · 29/10/2021 20:28

So sorry to hear that. must be a shock. good luck.

itsraininghere · 29/10/2021 20:29

So sorry OP. Take care of yourself, we're all thinking of you

AudTheDeepMinded · 29/10/2021 20:29

Crikey, so sorry for that news, but glad you are in the system now for treatment. Hope you have lots of support around you. xx

SunshineCake1 · 29/10/2021 20:29

So sorry to hear it was breast cancer. Happy you ate having good care.

I have a mammogram next week.

Immaculatemisconception · 29/10/2021 20:30

Really sorry to read your update @needabitof 💐. I’m an ovarian cancer survivor, so I know a bit of what you’re going through. It’s really hard right now but amazingly we do find the strength to cope. It’s always the waiting that’s the worst. Sending unmumsnetty hugs 🤗 x.

Tiredmum100 · 29/10/2021 20:34

So sorry to hear this. Wishing you all the best. Stay positive.

LowlandLucky · 29/10/2021 20:35

So sorry to hear your news. Flowers

NotMyCircusNotMyProblem · 29/10/2021 20:37

Sorry to hear of your breast cancer diagnosis. I hope your treatment goes well - breast cancer treatment is incredibly effective, one of the most treatable cancers. I myself was treated successfully for breast cancer some 18 years ago. Good luck OP X

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