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Work training - pull a sicky

64 replies

Islandcircle4 · 14/10/2021 04:49

Really considering pulling a sicky tomorrow at work. Work have organised an all day training event for the whole department around 50 people. No assurances of Covid safety,how far apart tables are etc or what the day looks like. I’m anxious. I don’t fancy it and the possibility of catching Covid. I feel bad to call in sick but really don’t want to go. Why couldn’t this be done online. Would this be naughty.

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applepineapple · 14/10/2021 05:14

Are you vaccinated? Have you raised your concerns with your manager at all.

FortunesFave · 14/10/2021 05:21

@applepineapple

Are you vaccinated? Have you raised your concerns with your manager at all.
Same questions.
MaudebeGonne · 14/10/2021 05:33

Whatever about naughty, it would be unprofessional. I'd imagine there is some sort of team building element to this whole venture. You don't know what you might be missing! What if there is a lack of detail because they are planning some massive reward for you all.

olympicsrock · 14/10/2021 05:34

It’s not normal tmfor a programme to say how’s far tables are apart. If you don’t trust that covid precaution will be taken then speak to your manager.
It would be bad just to assume there will be a problem .

NewIdeasToday · 14/10/2021 05:53

This would be very unprofessional. Presumably it’s being held in person to help with team building. Go and take part and enjoy seeing your colleagues again.

Zarene · 14/10/2021 06:09

If you're so worried about COVID you're contemplating this, you need to talk to your manager about coping strategies.

The world is restarting, whether or not you like it. Lying to avoid this is a very short term (and silly) strategy.

Banani · 14/10/2021 06:10

It would be unprofessional, if you had concerns you really should’ve raised/ discussed them in advance.

girlmom21 · 14/10/2021 06:11

It's part of your job. Go to work.

Coffeey · 14/10/2021 06:15

Did you only find out yesterday? Do you have a diagnosis of anxiety? If so you could ask for a reasonable adjustment for future events of giving you a bit of detail in advance?

SaltySheepdog · 14/10/2021 06:19

If you’re double vaccinated it will be fine.

SaltySheepdog · 14/10/2021 06:20

If you’re not double vaccinated talk to your manager and explain how frightened you are

MargaretFaffter · 14/10/2021 06:20

Yes, it would be “naughty” or, as some people call it, “misconduct”.

The world is getting back to normal. Covid isn’t going anywhere and you’re double-jabbed. Unless there’s something you’re not telling us - like you’re not vaccinated or you’re ECV - then you’re being unreasonable.

bobsholi · 14/10/2021 06:30

It's not really about covid is it? You clearly just don't want to go!

Dillyjones72 · 14/10/2021 06:32

Talk to your manager and say you’re not comfortable with this and you have concerns. That should be enough to get a pass.

Our workplace is opening up with a desk booking system to control numbers and there no way we would be allowed to hold an event like this yet.

Dillyjones72 · 14/10/2021 06:34

‘ If you’re double vaccinated it will be fine.’

While I WOULD go the above statement isn’t tried. I got the Delta variant a s was ill for a week, and I am double vacc. I know many people who were quite ill while double jabbed so it depends on the person quite honestly.

Dancingbugbadge · 14/10/2021 06:35

I think if you’re this frightened and double jabbed seeing a GP may be a good idea. Like others have said the world is re-starting so unless there’s a massive back story you need to crack on and go to work. It’s not normal to be told how far apart tables are. It would be wrong to ‘pull a sicky’

Damnyoureyes · 14/10/2021 06:35

Ugh op this would be my worst bloody scenario too, not just because of Covid precautions but because I hate work things.

But as people have said, it’s part of your working week so I would grit my teeth and endure it.

Good luck, it’s only one day.

Dillyjones72 · 14/10/2021 06:36

It’s really poor that you haven’t been given any details either. I’m sure you aren’t the only one with concerns about this

tttigress · 14/10/2021 06:36

I tend to find there is quite a big disconnect over zoom.

Is this really about Covid? Have you built up an irrational fear about how deadly/contagious it is?

Or do you just want to get out of it?

ThinWomansBrain · 14/10/2021 06:47

& if you're not double vaccinated as a result of your own choice, rather than medical reasons that you can't be, maybe take a days' annual leave.

flowery · 14/10/2021 06:58

”No assurances of Covid safety,how far apart tables are etc or what the day looks like.”

Have you said you are anxious and asked about safety measures? Or have you not asked, and just made assumptions that it won’t be safe simply because they haven’t specifically informed everyone in advance how far apart tables will be? Big difference!

pilates · 14/10/2021 07:01

“I tend to find there is quite a big disconnect over zoom.

Is this really about Covid? Have you built up an irrational fear about how deadly/contagious it is?

Or do you just want to get out of it?”

^
This

TipseyTorvey · 14/10/2021 07:25

Quite surprised at the harshness of some replies here. There are some 130k people dead of covid and I don't know how many with long covid. Why would anyone want to get this illness? Fine to go to socially distanced office spaces if necessary but an unnecessary team building large group event of enforced fun seems a little reckless to me. We're heading in winter now and cases are rising again. As a pp has said double vaxxed does not mean you can't get it.

Brefugee · 14/10/2021 07:29

I would ask them what their safety protocols around Covid-19 are. And then I'd go, with a mask, and keep my distance from everyone etc.

If it's in a closed room - open the windows etc.

But don't pull a sicky. That's not the grown-up thing to do. Stand up and ask, other people might be grateful and have been wondering too.

IceCreamAndCandyfloss · 14/10/2021 07:32

Just ask them rather than call in sick.

Have you got children in education? If so do you home school so they can avoid the same?