Looking for catering for a party, will be children and adults and all I keep being offered are grazing tables/platters. Having not experienced one first hand I'm worried that though it will start looking beautiful once the guests start digging in it will look a mess and maybe bit unsanitary?
YABU - they look fab and stay looking fabulous (if a little disheveled by the end of the party)
YANBU - Wasteful fad crawling with germs, find an old style caterer.