Veggie 30+ years here plus losing weigh myself (lost just over a stone since start of june) so I applaud you for reviewing and making changes - being veggie isn't automatically healthier/lower cal! It requires effort. All diets (in terms of meat use) can be healthy or unhealthy
You can replace the red meat with meat substitutes - veggie mince, Quorn and other brands of fake meat
You can replace it with things like lentils
Meal wise I must admit I like pasta so have that a fair bit
Non pasta meals -
Stir fry (sometimes I'll use Quorn sometimes "just" lots of veggies), either with a home made sauce or just a splash of soy or sweet chilli, served with rice, noodles or Cous cous but I've cut my carbs portion sizes right down!
Roast - I have a nut cutlet instead of the meat part, veggie friendly stuffing and gravy, roasties or mash (a small portion these days), a small Yorkie and some "wintry" veg like carrots, broccoli, parsnips etc
Casseroles - sometimes I'll use quorn or similar, sometimes just plenty of hearty veg, sometimes I just use stock and herbs etc, sometimes I'll use a packet mix. Serve with mash or a crusty roll
Tray bake - just root veg, maybe some peppers and mushrooms thickly chopped etc, a drizzle of Henderson's relish over it, lovely with Linda McCartney original veggie sausages
Jacket potato (this is me not eating chips! ) - sometimes as a lunch sometimes a dinner. With cottage cheese (sometimes I'll add some sweetcorn, black pepper, smoked paprika), baked beans (small portion), vegetable or vegetarian chilli (sometimes home made sometimes out of a tin), lentil Dahl, a bit of sweet chilli sauce, tinned tomatoes (I'll usually add some garlic grinder and some herbs to this), ratatouille
Egg dishes - huevos rancheros, omelette, scrambled eggs (i add in some veggies too), baked eggs (which I used to have with chips now I have with jacket potato and a small portion baked beans
Vegetable or vegetarian curry
BBC good food mushroom stroganoff is lovely, I make it regularly with a few minor tweaks
I use fry light for cooking but I don't need to use much
Lunches I have :
As I said jacket potatoes
Soup (I'm getting on a soup making kick this week now the weather is getting cooler. My mum ALWAYS has a pot on the go even in the summer! It's a Scot thing. Soup is great for using up veggies and if you have it as a "starter" it fills you up
Sandwiches/rolls - either with cheese or egg or a vegetarian fake deli meat. This weeks options for me are Quorn spinach slices or squeaky bean pastrami
Toast/crackers with vegetarian pate or cottage cheese or a little salsa on top
Toasties - I love these but I need to figure how to make them not too high cal
Eggs - scrambled, or "Chucky eggs" - boiled eggs mashed in a cup with butter and seasoning served with toast DELICIOUS!
Ready made stuff - falafel, vegetarian mini scotch eggs, Quorn sausage rolls, small/slice of quiche, Quorn roasted sliced fillets (like Cooked diced chicken)
That reminds me with the Quorn fillets I make a dish that is great for a lunch or dinner just adjust portion sizes it's basically a Cous cous salad -
Cous cous
Sliced fillets
Veg (salad veg mainly - cherry tomatoes, diced cucumber, peppers, mushrooms, sweetcorn, spring onions etc)
Sweet chilli sauce
Make up the Cous cous, prep and add in the veg and fillets and mix in, add sweet chilli sauce and mix that in, sometimes I also add a splash of soy sauce or Henderson's relish
Very quick and easy it's one of my go to "lazy" dinners/lunches and works as a packed lunch option too
I like "Mexican" on occasion too but I'm finding it tricky to reduce the cals there
Agree with @PurpleDaisies beware the cheese!
In terms of weight loss it's more a case of looking at your portion sizes (I'm terrible for "portion creep" I HAVE to weigh and measure) and what items you're having that are calorie dense.
I don't believe in cutting out any food group - even fats are part of a healthy diet - but overall portion sizes and maximising vegetable use generally helps
With a little one it is good to get them in the habit of having their 5 a day (Indeed apparently we're actually supposed to have 10 a day but the powers that be thought that would be too tough a sell), having a healthy relationship with food and eating as wide a variety of food as possible.
There's a "100 plant based items a week" challenge which can be fun to do - includes herbs and spices etc so not as hard as it sounds but does take some planning. I've managed it sometimes on my weight loss journey and I have to say when I do this and I'm having more herbs etc I felt more satisfied/less hungry
One of the reasons your body will give hungry signals even if you've had plenty to eat that day is if you haven't had a variety of flavours.
A wider variety of flavours according to some studies apparent triggers the "I'm full" signal more often