Every year I do the same damn thing, a kind of budget is set between family members on how much we'll spend on gifts for each other, let's say £20/£30 each person, and every year, I go over it!!!! To my own annoyance, I am a people pleaser, I try my hardest to make gifts personal and thoughtful, and this I why I end up overspending. I think I haven't bought enough, or it doesn't look like I've spent the amount we've set, so over compensate by buying more and every year, my bank balance takes a hit. This year, I was going to suggest doing a Secret Santa, we all pick someone out of a hat, set a budget, maybe a slightly higher one then an individual, so something around £50 maybe, that way, everyone will get a present/s but they only have to do it for one person. I really don't want to look like I'm being tight, but there's 16 adults I usually buy for, and last year I spent just shy of £700 on them alone. WIBU to suggest it, I think to be honest, there are a few that would appreciate it too.