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Words that other adults use that irritate you?

999 replies

Mangosmoothiesprinkles · 04/10/2021 19:54

Some examples that seem to irritate me (yes I know it’s totally irrational!).

First is someone calling the tumble dryer ‘the tumblee’ (written phonetically to explain how they pronounce it). Second is ‘homee’ rather than home. I know there is no reason for these to give me the rage but they do.

AIBU to feel irrationally annoyed? What words that other adults use give you the rage?

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Bebethany · 05/10/2021 18:26

Hun, hun Hun I can’t fucking stand being called hun!!!! 🤬🤬

shallIswim · 05/10/2021 18:27

Sorry OP but if something gives someone 'the rage' it annoys me!

Happycat74 · 05/10/2021 18:27

Holibobs and fur baby!

aSofaNearYou · 05/10/2021 18:28

Tbf, though I know that to be true, it really annoys me that there is no "h" sound at all in "aitch". The English language is baffling.

Barmychick · 05/10/2021 18:29

Read the room. Pacific rather than specific. Sic rather than sixth. Hyperbole.

anotherpassword · 05/10/2021 18:29

Utilise instead of use
ticks all the boxes

VanillaIce1 · 05/10/2021 18:31

People that randomly call their kids cunts in a sort of endearing way.
I know a person who says "just stuck with these cunts today" and puts it on facebook.
Say it's a rainy day for example and she's stuck in.
She's not a bad parent in the slightest she's a really lovely person not sure if it's meant to be funny or what but I sometimes look at it and think bloody hell!

AnnieSnap · 05/10/2021 18:33

@Evan456

Does that make sense
Many, many moons ago, when I was a Trainee Clinical Psychologist, I was taught to ask “does that make sense (to you)”?, when I provided an explanation of a behaviour to a patient. I have never been entirely happy with it as a question, but I still use it because I have yet to find another way of asking gently if they understand my explanation. Asking “do you understand”? could lead to the person inferring that I think they might be stupid!
caspersmagicaljourney · 05/10/2021 18:36

Mumma (instead of mum or mother)
Nanna
Reaching out
Synergy
Guys (whilst addressing all genders)
Own it

CherylStreep · 05/10/2021 18:38

Deep dive into
curate
Doggo
Bless
Jammies
Panties 🤮

ThePotatoCroquette · 05/10/2021 18:39

Pacific instead of specific
Bae

Nannewnannew · 05/10/2021 18:39

Chimley instead of chimney
Teef instead of teeth.

Gingerwarthog · 05/10/2021 18:47

Hollibobs
Yummy
Super excited
Hubby
'I'm not being funny but...'
Aargh....

Mirw · 05/10/2021 18:47

Mummy and Daddy instead of Mum and Dad.

mamaandbabas · 05/10/2021 18:50

Hubby
"Flagging" (up ideas/issues)
Professional health worker referring to her patients as "wee souls/poor wee souls"

Elle8344 · 05/10/2021 18:52

@Ihaventgottimeforthis

Stunning.

Makes me wish I had a taser.

😂
Lindylindyloo · 05/10/2021 18:58

Mum! On the news or factual programmes Why can't we be mothers? Princess Diana is always referred to as a Mother, never Mum. Just sounds disrespectful.

Vanilli1978 · 05/10/2021 18:59

“Reach for” I’m selling this because I don’t “reach for it any more”

Mitzimccormack · 05/10/2021 19:00

Holibobs
gobsmacked

and teenage staff telling me that being asked to do anything slightly difficult or being busy at work is bad for their mental health.

Tigger1895 · 05/10/2021 19:03

@BigSandyBalls2015

‘The’ covid
I’ve heard da covit, it’s unbelievably annoying.
TeaAndBiscuitsAndWine · 05/10/2021 19:10

I am absolutely cracking up at some of these, and also laughing at how many I use. In fairness, some of those are used ironically / because I know it annoys the person I am speaking to. I love using words like ‘amazeballs’ in conversation with my mother, and watching as she is overtaken by a wave of fury.
I sometimes think I am not a very nice person...

hookiewookie29 · 05/10/2021 19:16

Holibobs
Famalam
Making memories
Hun
Dude
When someone asks for a recommendation or something on Facebook and end it with "Annnnnd Go!"

vincettenoir · 05/10/2021 19:17

Hubby
Dins
Eats

Emmasonej3791 · 05/10/2021 19:18

Reach out
Got an email from letting agent last week saying he was ‘reaching out’ to ask to see id!!!!

BubbleCoffee · 05/10/2021 19:19

Miss-CHEE-vee-us, when it should be MISS-chiv-us.