Is he stupid or selfish?

[Floogalsagain]

Really really hard week with toddler Dd, 3, Dp knows this. On two of the nights he went to a friends until 1 am, I’ve barely slept and Dd is going through a very difficult phase.
This morning she wakes at 7, he gets up, goes down to the toilet, is sat on the computer and doesn’t come to get her. I’m drifting in and out of sleep, she’s talking and talking, so I bring her down at 8.30 and start doing her breakfast. He comes in and I say to him that he was awake anyway, why couldn’t he come to get her. He goes mad about me coming down in a bad mood! Why couldn’t he come and get her if he was up?! 🤷🏻‍♀️

[quote esloquehay]@Blinkingheckythump, RTFT. OP has already clarified that she is not in England.[/quote]
Where exactly does op say this before her reply to me about the free hours?!

Selfish and deliberate. He know very well he could bring her downstairs. He would rather be on his computer. Then he tries to blame you by saying you’ve come down in a bad mood as a way to shut you up so you won’t call him out on his bad behaviour