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Ridiculous name for baby

824 replies

PegorySpeck · 23/09/2021 16:24

My step son and gf have recently called their newborn a really awful pretentious name. I know it’s their choice but neither me nor my husband can bring ourselves to say it in a sentence. Every time we talk about him we say ‘the baby’ or the ‘little one’. We have been very diplomatic and said things like ‘ oh that’s unusual’ but they have started to notice we don’t use his name in conversation and it’s becoming tense.

Any advice on how to move forward?

OP posts:
AliceAyres · 24/09/2021 02:44

That poor, poor child will get bullied constantly. Poor bub. Stormy-Water. Honestly. What were they thinking.

BudrosBudrosGalli · 24/09/2021 02:46

I am sure someone mentioned Balloonz Grin

TwinsandTrifle · 24/09/2021 05:47

I have to ask. What is this Balonz thing?

Michellebops · 24/09/2021 06:06

Has the baby been actually registered? Hopefully not, although I believe you can get it changed.

I was reading your posts thinking surely it can't be that bad, but this actually is so bad.

It's not a name!

That poor child will be affected badly by this.

I think you really need to have a discussion with the parents. Whilst we understand the sentiment behind it, it's a ridiculous name.

MrsJackWhicher · 24/09/2021 06:08

@tiktok

Is it Rumpelstiltskin?
GrinGrinGrin
gofg · 24/09/2021 06:10

It's really not that bad - I've heard far worse (I don't live in the UK, people are very creative with names here). However, it doesn't actually matter what you or your DH think - their baby, they get to choose the name. You are being ridiculous by refusing to use it.

Shoxfordian · 24/09/2021 06:18

Wow
Stormy water cloud
At least there probably won’t be that thing of other children having the same name in his class when he goes to school. Agree with previous post though, you need to start using it, nothing you can do to change it

OrangeTortoise · 24/09/2021 06:25

@TwinsandTrifle it's a reference to this thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/baby_names/2197937-Help-Difficult-choice-of-boys-names-Sean-Daniel-or-Balonz

Underamour · 24/09/2021 07:49

I’ve just looked at the paper and seen Kylie Jenner, mother of Stormi, sitting on a cloud! Strange coincidence. Not to name drop but a friend of mine met Kylie and said she is genuinely sweet and lovely irl.

diddl · 24/09/2021 08:07

@StormcloakNord

Stormy.. water.. cloud..

Where the fuck am I?

Someone's imagination??!!
Doomscrolling · 24/09/2021 08:33

@StormcloakNord

Stormy.. water.. cloud..

Where the fuck am I?

Near an airport in Namibia, according to What 3 Words
Ridiculous name for baby
Rainbowsew · 24/09/2021 08:38

Not my cup of tea, my sibling recently named their animals similar weather related names (at the request of their preschoolers) which I'd be embarrassed calling across the garden, but they're animals.

Going forward though you need to start practicing saying it out loud. It'll get easier with time. You have to make an effort before the parents get really upset by it and the relationship becomes damaged. Just be glad you aren't yelling it across the playground yet. Things could change by that time.

As for being embarrassed by telling friends, you need to get over that, it's not your choice and no reflection on you/your dh.

KittenKong · 24/09/2021 08:41

Or just call the child ‘darling’ or ‘sweetie’. Most children I have come across are this names because I could never remember the names of DSs school mates. (In return I have been called Namibia, Mrs DS-mum, ds name (feminine version), and Reggie. None of these are even close.)

Snog · 24/09/2021 08:42

You don't get to choose the name, and the parents don't require your approval. Its very disrespectful and judgmental not to use the name the parents have chosen.

EggSheeran · 24/09/2021 08:43

@Doomscrolling 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Addicted2LoveIsland · 24/09/2021 08:45

How judgmental and mean of you. Very passive aggressive to not use the baby's name. It's their baby and their choice.

WheresYourSnickers · 24/09/2021 08:53

Stormy.. water.. cloud..

Where the fuck am I?

Near an airport in Namibia, according to What 3 Words

😂🤣 hilarious @Doomscrolling
I think What 3 Words may become my new favourite mindless scrolling thing.

pangolina · 24/09/2021 09:03

That really is a bad name, and I say that knowing children called Sugar- Ray and Beowulf. What are some people thinking!

MarieIVanArkleStinks · 24/09/2021 09:05

Cool story, bro.

TwinsandTrifle · 24/09/2021 09:12

Ah, was crying with laughter at the Balonz thread, until the truth was revealed, then it just went a bit flat.

That scenario was amusing in its initial sense, because it's a contemplation about a silly name. It's suddenly not so funny when it's a real life child's name, and all the ramifications it will hold. The disbelief, people trying to hide their reaction, and thinking they are joking, every time the poor child introduces himself. The PP who've asked their children their opinions, and they've replied, "they'll get bullied." The fact they've even got the Cloud middle name wrong by their reasoning, as the silver lining is the happy part around the miserable cloud in that saying. I don't think "hippy free spirit" I think Kardashian/Towie wannabe.

It's really hard I can imagine OP, as basically, you have no choice in the matter, but you can see the bigger picture, whilst DS and his partner are so proud of their thought up name and wonderful story behind it. Stormy is about your only option, which is recently newly famous as the Jenner baby and the porn star Donald Trump has been in the news with. You'll mainly get the Jenner (Stormi although it's identical in sound, and I think a baby girl) association.

I'm racking my brains what you could nickname Stormy-Water as, that the mum and dad would think you were simply shortening, as Stormy-Water is a mouthful regardless of anything else. No different to something long like Mariella-Anna, that you'd shortened to Elle. It's just such a tricky thing to shorten to anything decent, or that doesn't sound like you're saying something weird solely to avoid the full name.

Tor? Sorry, that's no better is it. How do you feel about Storm?

MolyHolyGuacamole · 24/09/2021 09:28

@RazorSharp

My MIL was like you, "I can't get used to that", called our son "baby"

How's baby, is baby hungry blah blah

His name ....

George!

FFS!

It's not what you think, that's not important, it's your DGC name, get over it!

What will happen if you say it? Will you combust?

Your comparison is as ridiculous as this poor child's name
astoundedgoat · 24/09/2021 09:57

@PegorySpeck Gosh I feel bad for being bitchy above. That's quite a name.

If he grows up to be an absolute hottie with long blonde hair and a skateboard, and a strong line in giant knitted cardigans and yurts, he could carry it off at uni, I guess? If he is DAMN cool at 18 it could work, but there's a lot of primary school to go before then!

I mean, I don't HATE it. Are they a yurty-knit-your-own-lentils kind of couple?

If they live in a semi-d in Milton Keynes and go on holiday in Majorca then it's probably a bit of a reach.

househuntinginthesouth · 24/09/2021 09:58

Maybe just call him Storm or Stormy.
About him getting bullied when older, he can change their name by deed pole when he's 16. Also you can ask school to call you a preferred name, so although school exams papers would be in the legal name, register etc can say the preferred name.

SpiceWeaselBAM · 24/09/2021 10:07

There's no way the parents won't find out about this thread.

Generallystruggling · 24/09/2021 10:08

Stormy Water Cloud? Ffs. I think I’d be forced to tell them how ridiculous it actually is and how much their child is going to be bullied at school. It’s so bad.