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Aibu to ask you to share the worst thing you have ever done?

93 replies

cassielassie · 22/09/2021 15:14

Just that really.

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Hyacinth88 · 23/09/2021 22:50

Bullied at work for 20 years. By a sociopathic night ar of a woman.
Snapped one day and wiped around the rim of her mug with used toilet Paper

TheChip · 23/09/2021 22:53

My DN came and told me awful things about her home life and how she worried about her brother being left at home now that she has moved out.
I had just done my safeguarding training so I was in professional mode and I reported my dsis to children services.
I then denied that it was me when she asked me and she hasnt spoken to me since.
I dont regret doing it so much, but I do wish I had spoken to dsis beforehand and most importantly I wish I had admitted it.

GinJeanie · 23/09/2021 23:05

Peed in a car wash - no car involved...

Harford · 23/09/2021 23:21

This is something I've felt terrible about, nearly 30 years on. I was staying at my auntie's house and went out clubbing with my cousin for the evening. I ended up getting a bit friendly with this guy I knew a bit. At the end of the night my cousin ditched me to go and stay at her boyfriend's. This guy walked me back to my auntie's house. I let him come inside. We were both v drunk and a bit horny so we decided we might dtd in my cousin's bedroom. I don't know if I would have actually gone through with it but basically my auntie caught him going to the bathroom in just his pants. She screamed at me to get him out. In my drunken state I had to persuade him to get dressed and go. My uncle apparently woke up and very roughly threw him out of the house. I had to face them both in the morning. Felt so ashamed though I do feel if my cousin hadn't left me it wouldn't have happened. Still cringe at the memory though. The shame! blush

ha sounds like a funny teen story, if that is the worst thing you ever did you lived a good life.

ALongHardWinter · 23/09/2021 23:36

Many years ago,I had a toilet brush. Blush

ALongHardWinter · 23/09/2021 23:40

Hyacinth88 After bullying you for 20 years,I think it was no less than she deserved! Grin

SukiPook · 24/09/2021 00:00

Don't think this was the worst thing ever but definitely poor judgement:

Late 90s and early 00s I worked in a call centre. There was a big work do one Fri night in a well known hotel in Belfast. So,people were dressing up, not necessarily black tie but fancy. My team's shift didn't finish to 9pm so we were changing at 9pm and going straight there. Fridays were "dress down" at work, but sometimes they were fancy dress with a theme. This Friday had been "School Daze"... so we were all in school uniforms.

Myself and a friend from the team always went out clubbing on a Friday night so tonight was going to be no different, we were just gonna slot in the work do first. So we had the bright idea that instead of changing into formal or cocktail wear, we would just tart up the school uniforms, do our makeup, and go out like that to the hotel and the club afterwards for the laugh.

So, we arrived to the work do and started beating the drinks into us. I remember everyone else was in suits and lovely gowns etc so even at this stage we stuck out like a sore thumb. But we were having great craic. So, when it was coming up to 11, we had to go to the club, because it was free in for ladies before 11. It was this techno club round the corner from the hotel. We didn't really want to leave the craic in the hotel yet though, and the club was going to go on to 3 or 4, so we decided to nip over to the club, get our stamps and come back for a bit before returning later to the club again. So off we popped. Of course once we were in the club, the next thing was to buy pills... which we did. We dropped the Es, and then in even higher spirits returned to the hotel....

So at this stage we were really away with it as we were both drunk and coming up on pills. I remember at one point we were dancing on chairs,and taking off our ties and whipping each other with them...bending over and whipping each other's arses 😆

Anyway we had a great night clubbing after that and were a hit in the club, well we were young at the time and basically dressed like Britney Spears in that video. But on Monday in work there were photos of the work do coming up all day with varuous captions. At regular intervals a picture of me and my friend would come up, with the caption "Some took the School Daze theme a little too far..." The pic was us draped together, one of us had a leg up wrapped around the other one and we were both sticking our tongues out at the camera... E'd up, drunk and tarty. Our Monday sober selves were pretty embarrassed, especially as this was shown ALL DAY.

There was lots of comment and joking about the state of us, but even worse was that I was told that I'd grabbed this guy that worked there and kissed him, in front of his girlfriend who was there and she was absolutely raging and had to be talked out of confronting me or slapping me.. everyone was saying "She didn't mean anything by it", while I danced about with my friend totally oblivious. I remember when I was told this I didn't believe it! (I didn't fancy the guy at all and had no memory of it)-so I never apologised or acknowledged my behaviour to him- it was only looking back years later that I realised I clearly had done it (because I did a similar thing a couple of other times after that,always when I'd first drank loads and later taken Es... whereas if I did it the other way round and took E first and THEN drank, I would remember everything ...).

It was such a topic of conversation at work,someone actually printed out the stills of the pic that was shown on the screens, and gave myself and my friend a copy. It was on the mantelpiece in my house for a while. A male friend of ours was visiting a couple of weeks later and did a double take when he saw it. He told us that for a minute he was convinced it was a scene from a lesbian porno he'd recently watched.... this highlighted even more, as if I didn't know already, how absolutely inappropriate we looked at the works do and especially to be all over the screen at work every few minutes that Monday...

Wish I still had the pic though! 😆 It would be funny to see it now. Ah... it was a good night though. I'm very sensible and don't even drink now but there were definitely some fun times had!

FangsForTheMemory · 24/09/2021 00:12

Put Tabasco in the penis beaker.

SolitaryTree · 24/09/2021 00:25

Not sure if it’s the “worst thing I’ve ever done” but I hugely regretted it!
Had had a few drinks on an evening and got a text from my manager at around 10pm to ask if I’d come in and cover a night shift.
I said that I couldn’t as I’d had a few drinks and then sent a meme which was a picture of a coffin and words that said “work be like…. “Sorry to hear you’ve passed, is there any way you can still come in?” I found it hilarious that night…. Not so much the next morning!

zinky · 24/09/2021 00:42

Affair with my boss (years ago ..)

Mybalconyiscracking · 24/09/2021 06:58

I am deeply ashamed and somewhat traumatised by the worst thing I have ever done. Not likely to air it to a bunch of strangers.
What a weird thread!

FWBNC · 24/09/2021 08:31

@SolitaryTree

Not sure if it’s the “worst thing I’ve ever done” but I hugely regretted it! Had had a few drinks on an evening and got a text from my manager at around 10pm to ask if I’d come in and cover a night shift. I said that I couldn’t as I’d had a few drinks and then sent a meme which was a picture of a coffin and words that said “work be like…. “Sorry to hear you’ve passed, is there any way you can still come in?” I found it hilarious that night…. Not so much the next morning!
It's so true of so many places though!!
MintyGreenDream · 24/09/2021 08:36

Wished somebody dead in anger.She died of a heart attack a few weeks later

MintyGreenDream · 24/09/2021 08:40

@Babdoc your daughter is my hero

HotSauceCommittee · 24/09/2021 10:02

Farted so badly it made my boss cry.
To be fair, I was sitting alone and SHE approached me, unexpectedly . She coughed and her eyes watered.

Harford · 27/09/2021 02:11

I am deeply ashamed and somewhat traumatised by the worst thing I have ever done. Not likely to air it to a bunch of strangers.
What a weird thread

It's weirder that you'd come on the thread then if you didn't want to share when the title outlined it. That and um, incase you didn't know, mn is anonymous, that is the whole point. If you think like that why bother even being in mn?

Mamibaer · 27/09/2021 09:58

At a concert, I’d queued for ages to get to the front, then a girl pushed in front of me just before the band came on. She turned round and laughed in my face. So when the lights went down I put my chewing gum in her hair. Right up near the roots. Absolutely not sorry!

optimistic40 · 28/09/2021 18:53

babdoc your daughter's story cracked me up!

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