to ask you what do you desperately want right now at this point (but cant have)?

[BobbiPinsOn]

for me:

1. self cleaning house
2. not have gluten allergies
3. new car

you?

@SpiceRat

Baby to stop screaming / having colic / reflux A spliff Sleep

If you haven't already considered cmpa then this may be the answer. It won't help with the spliff though!

1. Size 8
2. Open a dog and cat sanctuary
3. Win enough money to do #2

@Crunchymum

My mum

(she died 21st September last year)

Same here crunchymum. I lost mine September last year too. Just a hug and a kiss from her is all I need right now.

I lost my mum 9 years ago in September. It never goes.

For DH, our dog, and me to all be young again.
To not have ulcerative colitis.
To live on a small hobby farm and have chickens.

1. Slim, toned body
2. FWB / casual date type Man
3. STB ex to move out (but keep paying the mortgage!)

1. children
2. a permanent job in my field
3. a house that doesn't leak quite so much
4. (total fantasy time) a flat in Dublin and a house in the countryside
5. decent mental and physical health (cPTSD, anxiety, chronic pain)
6. off street parking

Not to be convinced I am going to fail

A holiday abroad (technically I could have one, I just cba with the hassle of covid testing etc)
My dad to be well (he's having cancer treatment)
A dog (will be having one before long but not practical right now)

@MintyGreenDream

To lose a stone in a fortnight

Ooo, I did that. But I was very overweight. I ate one meal a day at about 600 calories, low carb. I lost 17lbs in 3 weeks. However, if you're only 1 stone overweight, it might not be doable.

A house with no issues to fix EG front door need replacing.
A job with a higher salary without the extra stress (or a large lottery win 🤷‍♂️)
A size ten body.

To be able to live comfortably with no money worries, probably like many others the after effects of covid/brexit are beginning to hit hard, I feel like this is only the beginning and we're struggling already.

My life back exactly as it was a year ago today.

1. Not to be a burden to my beloved DH because of my mental health and autism.

2. To be able to repair some of the heart rending problems I read about on MN.

1. My ds fully recovered
2. My bf here and holding me
3. An instant loss of 1 stone in weight

@ssd

I lost my mum 9 years ago in September. It never goes.

Reading many of these makes me so grateful for what I do have - I feel very blessed, a decent (most of the time ) DH, confident, happy grown up DS, a part time job despite shocking pay I love, a mortgage free home, friends, hobbies and a sense a purpose - I am very lucky.

The only thing that I would really love now is a large glass of chilled white wine ... but have restarted low carbing to get rid of my excess 3 stone. .

A full nights sleep 😁

A life

@boobearandme thank you

A home

More children.

To reverse Brexit so my son could work in the EU rather than a 10 hour flight away

A baby! TTC 9 months now, I’d just love to be pregnant.

Private medical care.
A stable base.