To expect OH to get married without his family

[fugginell]

Expecting our third baby was a bit of a surprise!as we wanted to get married next year on holiday. However that isn't going to happen now, I refuse to have another baby without being married not that it's a massive deal it's just something I want for myself.

I have said let's just go to the registry office me and you and get it done. Don't need to tell anyone if he doesn't want to then after the baby is here have a little ceremony on holiday as planned.

We don't really have many friends it's just me and OH his brother mum & dad and probably my mum. I don't really want to invite people to a registry office then go home.

AIBU?

If I'm getting married I would expect to have who I want at the wedding. If not, no wedding.

@fugginell congratulations on both the baby and the forthcoming wedding.

Can you ask the venue if they'd make an exception as four of your potential guests are children, depending on how old they are obviously and given that two of them are yours who couldn't be left elsewhere.

As you''d only be asking five other adults along and total only one over the room number of eight, they might just look favourably. If you don't ask, you won't know.

@bellabasset I'd only just clicked on this thread and your post wasn't showing, sorry, it looks like I ignored what you already said and claimed it as a new idea