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It’s 9/11 twenty years later. Today, now.

105 replies

AtlasPine · 11/09/2021 00:03

We’re all still a bit clueless. What a mess.

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2tired2bewitty · 11/09/2021 09:25

I was at work and Radio 1 was on with Mark and Lard. I couldn’t quite hear so when they reported that a plane had flown into the twin towers I assumed that they meant the Petronas Twin Towers in Kuala Lumpur and prayed that it had been a cargo plane and of course that it had been some terrible accident caused by bad weather.

As what had actually happened became clear Mark and Lard were clearly really struggling and eventually switched to just playing music.

Thorilicious · 11/09/2021 09:34

I was at work in a call center. Our normally busy lines fell mostly silent that day.
It's also strange to think that we didn't have social media and instant access to news on our phones, so we just watched the TV, or we're frantically refreshing the slow internet news pages.

SecretSpAD · 11/09/2021 09:35

I was working in a GP practice in London and it happened just as my last (and demanding) patient of that day had left. I was looking forward to getting out of the practice and going on a date in the evening.

Instead I spent the afternoon in the meeting room with the practice manager and admin staff with other GPs and nurses coming in and out between patients. None of us said anything, but we were all thinking that London was next and we were all waiting for that to happen so we could go to the hospital and help out.

In the evening the PM and I, the only single ones, went back to my place and continued watching it all on TV. The date was forgotten.

autumnboys · 11/09/2021 09:36

It was our second wedding anniversary and we were on holiday in France with my mum & dad. I remember that my Dad thinking immediately that it was Bin Laden and thinking he was probably wrong as I’d never heard of him.

Driving back through France a few days later listening to a service being broadcast on the radio, which was just unbearably sad.

PreparationPreparationPrep · 11/09/2021 09:44

I remember coming home from work and switching on the tv it was surreal - I was alone and couldn't talk or take it in. It was only when I got to work the next morning that I had a proper conversation about it.
What is worse feeling is that I had also taken a relative to the airport and TT ru were flying around a similar time it would have happened, admittedly flying in the opposite direction but still my heart flips when I revisit that thought. I just can't imagine how anyone who has lost a loved to this can ever come to terms with it.

WhatTheFlap · 11/09/2021 09:51

I was in year 10 and I remember hearing something on the news on the way into school that day about storms happening somewhere in the world. No one mentioned anything at my school, so when my dad came to pick me up he was the one who told me. He said “terrible things are happening in the world” and I thought it was about the storms.

My family and I watched the news for about 8 hours after I got home, just shellshocked.

I’ve been to NYC twice and visiting the site is really overwhelming, but I think what they’ve done there is a fitting memorial. Just a truly horrific event.

Sagaz · 11/09/2021 09:54

It's shocking isnt it. I remember how shocked i was. Nothing ever shocked me so much. I had no idea that there was a group who hated the americans so much.

HeronLanyon · 11/09/2021 09:58

Thoughts and rip to all affected by this.
I too am struggling to think it was 20 years ago.
Was in a work meeting and coming out our security guy at the desk said ‘New York is under attack it feels
Like the end of the world’. He was frightened. Afternoon meeting cancelled and sat in a bar with people drifting in to watch news. Just could not believe what I was seeing.
Look at photos of me and family on the observation deck of the towers with New York spread out below us from the 70s and my head goes all funny to think of what happened.

Sleepyteach · 11/09/2021 09:58

I was in year 10 at school, I’d come home and put friends on the same as I did every day, there was some breaking news thing across the bottom of the screen but I didn’t really pay any attention to it until my dad came in from work and made me switch channels. He worked for a contractor to the MOD at a nuclear site and they were on high alert as a potential target for a terrorist attack.

LagneyandCasey · 11/09/2021 10:01

Yes the memorial is beautiful and very calm and moving. A flower is placed by their name on their Birthday Flowers

PollyDarton1 · 11/09/2021 10:22

I've mentioned this before in other threads but I was 16 at the time and had literally just started college. Had finished for the day at lunchtime and went with my then boyfriend to his piano lesson, and was sitting inside the waiting room reading about Joanne Lees of all things.

My mum called me on my mobile, which was incredibly rare because calls from landlines to mobiles were expensive. She'd just got home from work and said 'turn on the news, there has been a plane crash into the world trade centre' - I'm a bit ashamed to admit I had no idea what they were, and was a bit nonchalant on the call because I figured it was an accident. Mum was saying 'no no it's really bad, it's a terrorist attack' and then I sort of took stock. I had to wait another ten minutes until my boyfriend finished and then I told him and the teacher, and he switched on the radio to just blanket coverage of what had happened. Eventually we left and walked to the bus stop and everything was so eerie - people were crying, it almost felt like a ghost town.

Back then there were a score of electrical shops by the bus stop and as coverage was on every single channel each tv just had repeats of the plane crashing into the south tower, and we saw the north tower collapse whilst we were watching. A lady waiting was beside herself and kept talking about war and how world war 3 was going to start and I started crying myself.

We got home eventually and just sat dumbfounded watching the tv all night. We watched President Bush address the nation somewhere in the middle of the night/morning and eventually fell asleep around 4am. Normally my boyfriends parents would insist we slept separately but that night they just didn't care; we had his little sister in bed with us as well which sounds really odd in retrospect but she was so upset and kept asking questions.

We went to college the next day and all anyone was talking about was what happened, classes were still on but we didn't do any material, the lecturers just talked us through our feelings and anxieties. I was a naive middle class teenager and had absolutely no idea about the geopolitics behind it whatsoever, and the teachers didn't force the information but just answered questions. I remember going to a pub afterwards and reading a paper about it all, and just being consumed by the thought we would be engaging in war before long.

Me and the boyfriend split up about 10 months later but every 9/11 we send each other a message (we talk apart from this!) just thanking each other for being there on that day - we were both really scared, village kids thrown into this world we never knew and we did a lot of talking in the days afterwards.

My thoughts, as ever, to those affected by the atrocities.

Dave20 · 11/09/2021 10:31

It wasn’t until recently I really looked into the passengers on those airplanes.
The whole thing was horrendous but the second plane to hit the south tower had three children on it all under 5...
The thought of those kids particularly on that flight breaks my heart, must have been so terrifying for them.
So heart breaking.
What upset me more was one of the families , with their young daughter were on their way to Disneyland , California.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 11/09/2021 10:33

I was working in a high rise building in London at the time. We all got sent home. My boss thought it was ridiculous we were all sent home and decided to stay and work! He was a workaholic though.

It was a really terrifying day. What also shocked me was how quickly everyone got back to their “day to day” as if it had never happened.

That said, I flee to New York that winter, and the planes were still really empty, with people not wanting to fly.

sleepygnome · 11/09/2021 10:33

It feels like it opened Pandora's box and the world has been progressively shit since. The 21st century has been horrible and looks like it will get worse. I'd go back to the 90s in a heartbeat!

EvilPea · 11/09/2021 10:35

@Dave20

It wasn’t until recently I really looked into the passengers on those airplanes. The whole thing was horrendous but the second plane to hit the south tower had three children on it all under 5... The thought of those kids particularly on that flight breaks my heart, must have been so terrifying for them. So heart breaking. What upset me more was one of the families , with their young daughter were on their way to Disneyland , California.
Have you heard of the musical come from away? It follows the story of the grounded flight when they landed in Canada unexpectedly.
EvilPea · 11/09/2021 10:36

Flight 93 must have been utterly terrified, knowing what fate they had.

Dave20 · 11/09/2021 10:37

I’m sure if the passengers knew what was going to happen on the WTC planes, they would have thought back. I guess they had no idea what was going to happen. It was only the passenger on flight 93 that were alerted that there were terrorists planning to crash into building, hence they they tried to stop it.

AnyFucker · 11/09/2021 10:38

I watched events unfold live for hours with my new baby in my arms.

Clear as day. That blue, blue sky. The 2nd plane hitting. The disbelief and the terror.

Dave20 · 11/09/2021 10:38

**Have you heard of the musical come from away?
It follows the story of the grounded flight when they landed in Canada unexpectedly.

No haven’t seen it. What flight landed unexpectedly?

EvilPea · 11/09/2021 10:40

@Dave20

**Have you heard of the musical come from away? It follows the story of the grounded flight when they landed in Canada unexpectedly.

No haven’t seen it. What flight landed unexpectedly?

en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Come_from_Away

This explains it better than I did! It’s a musical, so feels like it’s making light of it. But it’s beautiful.

Thirtyrock39 · 11/09/2021 10:48

I don't know if it's the same but because they had to land all other planes that day and clear the skies there were lots of people stuck in random places and planes weren't allowed to fly for a few days (a week?) so there were sports halls and schools that were suddenly turned into temporary hotels for the stranded passengers and the communities provided food etc- there's some good articles about it if you google.

Peridot1 · 11/09/2021 10:56

@AnyFucker

I watched events unfold live for hours with my new baby in my arms.

Clear as day. That blue, blue sky. The 2nd plane hitting. The disbelief and the terror.

Same here. DS was five weeks old. I was staying with my parents and a friend had come to see me with her four DC. We all just sat and watched in horror.

DH was working overseas and had had a friend stay for the weekend who was flying back home. The friend was at the airport waiting for his flight when it started. He rang DH to tell him to get to a TV. Must have been terrifying to be on a flight.

A girl I was at school with moved to NY and married a policeman. He has since died from medical issues due to 9/11.

I’ve been to NY a few times since 9/11 and have watched the memorial develop from a construction site the first time I went to the memorial and museum of today. It’s haunting and DS and I went when he was 18. It really brought it home for him.

One of the many things that makes be tearful is the story of the rescue dogs. They got depressed at only finding dead bodies so to try to help them feel better the handlers had some first responders and volunteers hide to be found by the dogs so they would feel they had saved people.

Wtf1980 · 11/09/2021 11:13

I was getting my 6 month old to sleep, watching diagnosis murder on bbc 1 when it went to breaking news.
Will never forget that day.

Wishihadanalgorithm · 11/09/2021 11:14

I was teaching a set of “naughty” Year 9 boys in the school library and a lady from the office ran in and said the twin towers had been hit. We put the TV on, on silent, and watched live as the second tower was hit. One boy shouted “Whoa!” As he obviously thought it was a film and I remember snapping at him that real people were dying.

The next day I was a bit late for work (unheard of for me) as I could not stop watching the news. I could just not make sense of what had happened and the horror of seeing it live.

Hattie765 · 11/09/2021 11:20

We'd listened to the news on the radio in our office all afternoon and after work I went to meet some friends at a large local pub. It was so strange to walk into a packed pub of completely silent people, all attention was on 2 TVs. An horrible day, I can still feel the fear of not knowing what was going to happen next, it just kept getting more awful.