I don’t think I am but I’m not really in a good frame of mind.
My father is seriously ill in hospital with covid. We’re not sure if he’s going to make it. My father is a very generous man and would give me the shirt off his back. I have no idea about his will etc and I don’t have any interest in it, I don’t expect anything at all, it’s never been a discussion.
I have a very close male friend (I’m using the term friend loosely at the moment.) since my father became ill he’s maybe called twice and I’ve seen him once so have been feeling a bit let down but tbh I’ve had better things to worry about.
Friend and I both work in the same industry. In the past we have both spoken about how we’d both individually like to open our own place. In order to do this would cost at least 20k.
Friend texted the other day asking if he could come and see me last night as he had a business idea he wanted to put to me, I said ok. So up he comes with his notebook and pen etc etc and says he’d really like us to open a place together etc etc. So I asked him where the money would come from. He said his first thought was my fathers will. I reminded him that my father wasn’t even dead yet and even if he was I don’t know if I would be left anything and if I did I would be keeping that for my children. Then I asked him to leave as I was tired.
I really am quite upset about this, the only word that comes to mind is vulture.
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