My partner will randomly make such rude comments or randomly raise his voice out of no where it ruins my mood .This happens on a daily basis . Im going to give 3 recent examples of this from yesterday and today .
Yesterday his daughter came over and asked me about my wig. Ive been wearing it due to excess hair loss . She was very rude and I defused the conversation by saying its a wig and tried to ask her about school to not talk about it . He then chimes in laughing saying no it's her real hair and then his daughter laughs and tries to pull it off whilst he's standing there watching her and he laughs. I then raised my voice before she could pull it off and tell them both off . He then calls me a miserable bitch .
Example 2- again on the same day him and his daughter are playing a card game and ask me to join I come into the room with my toddler . He immediately says my toddlers breath smells like garlic . I was confused because my toddler hadn't eaten anything also he didn't have a dirty nappy . I told him maybe the garlic smell is coming else where . He then says OK and continues to play the game but then says ' there's some smelly people in here whew' I got annoyed and left the room .
Eg:3 today I bought him vest and flamingo shorts and I gave them to him and as he tried them on I laughed saying he looked very sexy . I was also laughing because my toddler and I were playing a game at the same time . He then turns around with an annoyed look on his face as says ' OK calm down then ' . I just got annoyed felt like my happy mood went away .
These are just examples from this weekend but this type of behaviour happens all the time . Im not sure if I'm being sensitive. . If you had someone treat you like this would you also feel upset and annoyed or am I just being overly sensitive in your opinion