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Breast implants - are you happy you got then done or do you regret it?

38 replies

Bluegreensea4 · 22/08/2021 13:01

I've always had really small breasts, cup A is sometimes a bit big, tops bras etc don't fit well. I've been considering breast implants for 10 plus years and now that I'm not having anymore children, I'm really considering going ahead with it.

Can you give me your experience/opinions, it would be really appreciated 🙂

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SirenSays · 22/08/2021 13:26

Two of my closest friends have had implants. One is very happy with the results, though she's only gone up to a b or c cup.
Other friend had implants and a lift which was very badly done. She had a revision and the surgeon decided to move her nipples because they were very low after the first op. She got horrendous keloid scarring around them. Then she had another lollipop op to try and correct but most of her nipples couldn't be saved so she was left with very little areola and more thick scarring. Being quite blunt they look much worse than before and she wishes she had never ever had it done.

Newbie8365 · 22/08/2021 13:38

Best decision I made! Wish I'd done it years earlier!

Concestor · 22/08/2021 13:40

I had mine done in 2002, went from AA to DD though I was aiming for a C cup. I've never regretted it, have breastfed two children since with no related issues, and they look really natural. I'm assuming that I'll need to have them replaced at some point but they are fine currently.

Bluegreensea4 · 22/08/2021 13:49

Thank you all. Could I please ask where you got them done? And @SirenSays that is one of my fears - it going wrong. Where did she get them done do you know? I would hate for it to go wrong.

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HotPinkTeaSet · 22/08/2021 13:51

A friend of mine had hers done. She’s really happy with them and doesn’t regret it at all, and they look great.

Kneesaregood · 22/08/2021 13:54

Have two friends who had breast implants in their twenties. One has always been happy with them, they are quite big but look natural on her frame (she's broad shouldered and quite curvy though I assume would have been 'pear shaped' before, I've only known her since)
The other had them done in part related to modelling. She was initially happy with them but in her thirties had some health issues (I'm not sure exactly what but I believe it was immune system related) and she had to have her implants removed due to leaking/complications. I'm not sure whether the two were linked in any way, but it was certainly extra stress and she was very anxious waiting for the removal.

Ughmaybenot · 22/08/2021 13:58

A close friend has had hers done in the past twelve months. She’s gone from a small B cup to a D cup, and she looks absolutely fantastic. Altho I didn’t think she needed the op at all (still don’t!), she’s so happy with them and they do look very natural.

DoWhatYouWantToAndShh · 22/08/2021 14:06

I know quite a few who have them.
One age 18, made no difference size wise and issue with nipple.
The rest seem happy with them so far.

My honest opinion is, spend the money on therapy or better bras. Most implants need redoing every 10+years so it's a lifetime commitment. If you ever decide to take them out, they'll be like sacks of air where implant was.

I'm not a size A but I've breastfed and stopped and seen what mine will return to once i stop for good. I stand by my thoughts though, it's a health risk I don't agree is worth it.

DrinkFeckArseBrick · 22/08/2021 14:07

My friend is a personal injury lawyer. She spends all day sueing medical groups because of complications, awful results, life long injuries and a large proportion of her work is boob jobs gone wrong. She had considered getting hers done before that and now is dead against it.

Obviously she sees the worst of the worst and the vast majority go smoothly however it's more common than you think for things to go wrong, and if they did, would you really want to risk life long complications just for a non necessary medical procedure for purely aesthetic reasons?

Winnona · 22/08/2021 14:10

Echoing what @DrinkFeckArseBrick one of my friends is very happy, my aunt almost died after surgery.

Elouera · 22/08/2021 14:14

As another poster said, its a lifelong commitment. SO many people scrimp and save up the money, without being fully informed that they should be replaced every 10yrs or so. If you can guarantee having a spare £8000 or so, every 10yrs, plus any costs for corrections, then go for it.

Bluegreensea4 · 22/08/2021 14:15

I think I've tried every bra going. I can't wear non padded bras as I will be completely flat. I have to wear padded bras which most of them are hard and even then my breasts don't completely fill the cup Sad.

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theresapossuminthekitchen · 22/08/2021 14:21

I have similar sized breasts to you, op. I was very conscious of them as a teen and I loved the pregnancy/breastfeeding ‘boost’! However, I would never want to risk health complications and any operation carries a significant risk (infection, reaction to anaesthetic, etc.) so to do this for cosmetic reasons wouldn’t be worth it for me. My children need me, as healthy as I can be.

I guess it depends how unhappy your breasts make you, but I would echo a pp - if you are unhappy because of a part of your body that is healthy and functions well, then you’d be better paying for therapy/life coach rather than a boob job. (Good quality padded bras and bikini tops can make a world of difference too!)

DoWhatYouWantToAndShh · 22/08/2021 14:27

Have a look for the gel filled bras.its like having the boob job that you can chuck away at the end of the day.

Branleuse · 22/08/2021 14:28

i had mine done about 12 years ago. I dont regret it. I had implants, then a lift afterwards as the implants didnt correct the droop as much as the surgeon thought they would and i got a bit of double bubble, but because that was his advice, he did free revision uplift. They still look great, better than ever, but ive also put on weight in perimenopause and now im thinking if I did ever need to get the implants changed, id go a bit smaller

DoWhatYouWantToAndShh · 22/08/2021 14:32

www.maxcleavage.com/g2802/ultimo-gel-bras/

I bought a gel bra by mistake once and it was pretty good. It moulds to your shape better than padding.

Partnerprobs · 22/08/2021 14:34

A friend has them done and they looked amazing but she said recovery was brutal (she couldn’t flush the toilet) and now she says that lying on her front still feels horrible even after 18 months and that she still doesn’t feel like they’re ‘part’ of her. It’s a lot of effort and energy to go through. Hard for others to say but can you embrace smaller breasts? I have DDs and they’re so saggy with no volume whatsoever (hang down to stomach, nipples point straight down) but are fine in a bra so I don’t mind them. Can you wear gel bras?

NeverTalkToStrangers · 22/08/2021 14:46

Have you tried the Boob or Bust method for measuring bra size?
www.booborbust.com/

Some women genuinely are very flat chested, but many think they’re AA cup but actually look and feel much better in a C cup or higher with a smaller band so it’s worth a try.

Lillygolightly · 22/08/2021 14:48

I’ll try and give as honest account as I can….

I first had them put in back in 2007, I kept them for 5 years before replacing them. Replaced because of the wrong size first time round. Second set were lovely and very natural and I was very happy with them, I was happy with the first set too but second set were much better and I loved them, to be honest I still do.

So my second set are now 10 years old, I paid extra to have implants with a 25 year guarantee and I may as well have poured that money down the drain. Most implants have issues around the 7-10 year mark though there are exceptions and some had issues a lot sooner and others issues well after the 10 year mark regardless of how long manufacturers say they will last.

All implants are now sold and issued with a black warning label as that’s how harmful they can be to your health. Many women end up suffering from what’s known as BII which is breast implant illness and there is also a cancer that is specifically caused by implants this is known as BIALCL or breast implant associated large cell lymphoma.

What happens to cause these issues, and why do they affect some more than others?

Simply put breast implants are a foreign object that is placed inside your body, and inside your body they are subject to a constant warm and wet environment which over time degrades the silicone and it’s only a matter of time before this becomes toxic to your body, specifically your endocrine system. As endocrine system disrupters breast implants cause a wide range of symptoms and illnesses, the majority of illnesses being autoimmune condition such as Hashimoto’s, Lupus, Graves’ disease, Addison’s disease and that’s just to name a few. Many women have been diagnosed with these illnesses and following the removal of their implants find that they are no longer symptomatic or are found to not have the illnesses at all.

For me my symptoms started almost 3 years ago and it’s been a long road of chasing symptoms and being referred to various specialists. Do I still love the look of my implants? Absolutely yes I do. Do I love what impact they have on my health? Absolutely not. It will be a hard and sad day when I can eventually get them taken out (currently saving for this) some women get sick enough that the NHS will pay for the removal, lucky enough for me I’m not that sick and I’ll be able to pay for my own explant with a little saving.

Do I regret having them put in? Yes and no, yes because obviously I’ve faced serious health issues for the last 3 years, I’m now always going to be at an increased risk of a certain type of cancer due to the silicone as even with explant/removal they cannot ever remove 100% of the silicone as moves around the body and ends up stuck in lymph nodes, and the fact that my body will never be the same. No because despite all of that I have enjoyed having them in, I have loved how they have looked and I have loved the increased body confidence they gave me. Overall would I choose to have them again? No, absolutely not.

Important note: ALL implants contain silicone even the saline implants, the filling is saline but all implants have a silicone shell. The textured shells seem to be those that cause the most issues as they are a breeding ground for mould and bacteria. Smooth implants seems to suffer this issue less, but they do still suffer from it. There is NO such thing as a safe implant, they all come with the black label warning. There are several ongoing class action law suits against implant manufacturers going on in other countries including the UK. There are several support groups for those who are suffering with the effects of BII and BIA LCL, you can research these yourself.

My advice is look at ALL the evidence, thing long and hard and very very carefully and about the long term implications before you make any firm decisions, don’t just believe what cosmetic companies tell you, or their surgeons.

Sorry this has been so long, but I felt it was important to share. I am so sorry if it’s not what you want to hear as I know how exciting considering this surgery can be, but please do think very very carefully.

Sonarl · 22/08/2021 14:52

Can't they be made of something else that isn't silicone, a none endocrine disruptor?

ChocolateChipBelvitaSoftBake · 22/08/2021 15:04

I'm an AA cup, gave up trying to find bras years ago. I don't wear anything that needs a cleavage for obvious reasons, luckily I live in sporty clothes and am petite all over. I buy a lot of boys clothes as a result. Trying to find nice going out ones are a mare. Still wouldn't get implants I think they'd feel alien to me.

MilduraS · 22/08/2021 15:04

I had mine done 11 years ago. I had 300cc teardrop shaped silicone implants done in France (where I lived at the time) and they don't look like obvious implants. I was in a lot of pain for the first couple of weeks and it was about 8 weeks before I was completely recovered. I love them and have no regrets at all.

Rafiosa · 22/08/2021 15:10

My friend has had health problems she suspects are caused by her implants.
Small breasts are sexy. Have you ever seen the interview with Kiera Knightley where she agreed to a topless photo as long as he did not make them look bigger or 'better'. Most photos of breasts are enhanced so they look better than they do in real life.
www.interviewmagazine.com/fashion/keira-knightley-by-patrick-demarchelier

Rafiosa · 22/08/2021 15:13

I could make a list of actors and singers with small breasts who look gorgeous but I think we all know who they are.

Okbutnotgreat · 22/08/2021 17:12

Mine are about 26 years old and although they are fab I am aware they are very old and should be replaced. I don’t have the money to replace them nor do I want to put myself through the operation again. Having them just removed would be difficult as they would literally leave empty pouches of skin I think. They were an impulse purchase and with the benefit of hindsight I do wish I hadn’t had them done.