@Chemenger
I lived in a 38 story apartment block in the US and I loved it. It had great communal spaces; a terrace on the top floor with barbecues and seating, a large lounge with big tables and a kitchen you could use for entertaining, a gym and work spaces. It even had a dog washing facility. There was a concierge service. I would move somewhere like that here in a heartbeat. I’m sure the service charge would be huge, however. We’re about to move from a house with a large garden to a flat in the centre of a city and I can’t wait, I’m over gardening.
I could have written this. I live in NYC where the majority of people live in flats - even with kids and dogs.
I live in a Victorian terrace garden flat now, but my friends live in gorgeous apartments with nice kitchens, room for dining tables, high ceilings, floor to ceiling windows and amenities like multiple roof terraces, children's playrooms, swimming pools and doormen.
There are also cheaper buildings that don't have the doorman, but still have things like communal gardens and playgrounds as part of the complex. Several of my friends live in buildings with in-house dog parks.
Back when I lived on the 26th floor of a high rise, I never heard my neighbors because it was properly sound proofed. We had TWO roof terraces, a play room and two rec rooms, as well as a cinema room and a gym.
The UK needs to build better quality flats with better amenities. The flat snobbery is also atrocious. I'll never forget the mumsnet thread where someone said they felt sorry for abused children and children living in flats - like they were the same thing
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