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AIBU?

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To think if you park so far across the pavement that even f**king slenderman would struggle to get past, it’s your own damn fault if your car gets scratched?

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AngeloMysterioso · 07/08/2021 16:36

Walking into town today with DS in the pram (in the pouring rain). I was walking up a road that is in a residential area, but this particular road is part of a cut-through between two main roads into/out of the town centre and is on a bus route, so it gets a lot of traffic.

It’s a fairly narrow one-way street, on one side are parking bays painted onto the road and dickheads people will often park like dicks across the pavement on the other side if there isn’t a free space and they’re too fucking lazy to park round the corner. The other side of the road is single yellow line so parking is restricted 8-6 Mon-Sat.

Apparently this arsehole bloke didn’t think those restrictions applied to him however, and had parked right the way across the pavement, leaving a tiny gap between the car and a garden wall.

This was close to the end of the road and a lot of cars tend to turn up the road without slowing down at all, so my options were to a) squeeze past the gap between the car and the wall or b) go around the car and into the path of oncoming traffic on a rainy day. It’s uphill too, and between DS, the pram, and my 23 week pregnant baby bump I was already fairly out of puff so wasn’t moving particularly quickly.

So I chose option a. Unfortunately, because it was such a tight squeeze the pram came into contact with the side of the car and left a bit of a graze. I didn’t really give a shit to be honest, so I just carried on walking.

What I didn’t realise was that the arsehole driver of said vehicle was sitting in the driving seat on his phone. When he realised what had happened he got out of his car and came running after me, yelling that I’d damaged his car and demanding I give him my details. I refused, pointing out that he was parked illegally, the pavement is for pedestrians and my and my son’s right to not get hit by cars overrides his right to not have to park somewhere thats a bit inconvenient for him.

He followed me a short distance and then went back to his car, saying he’d be contacting the police.

WIBU?

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MoiCnoi · 09/08/2021 08:08

In our area the police flyered the streets a few years ago reminding people not to park on the pavement. I imagine if someone had tried to report damage caused as a result they would have been laughed at. (And rightly so)

MiddlesexGirl · 09/08/2021 08:12

@Aprilx

Why is everyone saying it was illegal parking? OP has not mentioned her location and in the majority of the country it is not illegal to park on the pavement.
From OP's post:

"The other side of the road is single yellow line so parking is restricted 8-6 Mon-Sat."

= illegal

ErrolTheDragon · 09/08/2021 08:23

@LuckyHarold

I love that.. 'usually motorists are paying enough attention'

Yeah... I'm not going to risk my child's life because usually it'll be alright.

Do you realise how ridiculous that sounds? 🤣

Russian roulette with kids, such fun.
rainbowstardrops · 09/08/2021 08:44

Serves the selfish prick right. I've got absolutely no sympathy for him.

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Strugglingtodomybest · 09/08/2021 09:32

Well done for standing up for yourself OP. I agree that if you block the pavement then it's your own fault if your car gets scratched.

I'm astounded that pp are advocating that people, even blind people, should walk in the road to avoid scratching paint. Weird priorities.

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