DH’s ex has a history of controlling behaviour around their joint dc. We all currently have Covid and our isolation ends on Sunday. DH is seeing his dc next Wednesday for a week. DH’s dd also has Covid and will be out of isolation on Saturday and his ds is currently negative after a PCR test.
We have informed DH’s ex when the isolation period is up for our household but she is now demanding to have the dates of everyone’s tests, including my dd, 16. We have given her all the information she requires and test and trace have also been given all the details. But DH’s ex wants confirmation of the positive test dd had and the email we were sent from the nhs. She has in the past, used dd’s private medical information against us in a court statement. I told her that we were going through the autism pathway, so she said in a statement for court that dd had extremely complex special additional needs - not true, she’s 16 and in mainstream school and not diagnosed yet! She tried to use this to reduce DH’s contact time with his dc.
This might seem quite minor, but this behaviour is constant. Last week DH was taking me for a PCR as I was ill and ExW’s mother took a photo of our car to try to catch us breaking isolation rules. The way I see it, beyond what she needs to know from test and trace, dd’s medical information isn’t her concern. I’m not forwarding the email or giving her the test date so she can try to find reasons for DH not to have his contact somehow, as it’s none of her business.