My MIL has been awful to me since the day I told her I was pregnant. She told me to get an abortion and said I was ruining her son's life. She got better throughout my pregnancy so I forgave her, but as soon he was born, it got worse again.
I have PND, and for the first part of motherhood it was horrendously bad, and I wholeheartedly believe it was because of her. She would criticise at every opportunity, told me I wouldn't be able to cope without my DP, slated me for my mental health problems.
We kept visiting because DP wanted to and told me she should be able to see her grandson, so I agreed.
Things are getting worse - she has a whole social media account with quotes about me, she is texting DP telling me I need to work more hours and that I need to get a 'real job' (I work from home, and support the family on my income as DP doesn't have a job).
She then constantly asks to see my son, and will try to get my DP to visit without me. She also keeps asking to come round to visit, to take care of DP (we don't need her help).
Things have got worse as her other DIL is now pregnant and she is over the moon talking about her new grandbaby. It makes me feel like sh*t because she was so awful to me when I got pregnant, especially as I had previously been told I couldn't have children due to too much adhesional scarring from surgery.
AIBU to tell DP I don't want her in my house? He thinks that she should be able to come over to see our son, but I don't want her around me - or him. It's up to DP if he sees his mum, but I don't understand why I should put myself in these situations, and I don't want her speaking badly about me around my son.
What do you think? Am I overreacting?