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Longtimelutker2019 · 24/07/2021 22:29

I can see a faint line, can you? Google tells me this is positive, but i took it on a whim for the following reasons:

Been taking Depo (contraceptive injection) for 9 months (3 x 12 week jabs) my last one was due on the 16th but didn't get it as i was under house arrest with Corona (my child not me). Booked in for next week instead but grabbed this "just to double check" as no, i have not been careful in the last week. It's not an early detection test though, can i really be pregnant and enough for the test to have picked it up?

Also (apologies for the overshare) i got a little bit of pee splash on the testing window, could this have effected things? Do you think this is why the test line is appearing

I have another test as I purchased a pack of 2 - Just waiting til i need to pee but dont want to overdrink as this could dilute the micro amount of pregnancy hormone i have (IF i have it!!)

AIBU to think the test is wrong due to the above or am i being naïve?

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SezziBaybee · 25/07/2021 22:31

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NoNobramma · 25/07/2021 23:30

@Longtimelutker2019 update? Flowers

GrandTheftWalrus · 25/07/2021 23:44

Definite evap lines. Do you have an updated test from today op?

mamaland · 25/07/2021 23:48

hope all ok!

Longtimelutker2019 · 26/07/2021 01:41

Was really touched to come back and find your messages, thank you! Not told anyone in RL about any of this, except my "partner" for what that was worth.

So i boycotted Clearblue and got a First Response 6 day early test and it was negative. And breath...

And just like it should do its stayed negative until now - I can't believe i got not 1 but 2 positives with Clearblue albeit after 10 minutes. I don't even know why I believed it as I should have been covered by the injection still, but you now, nothings ever 100% is it and as you can see it LOOKS positive and that just makes you doubt EVERYTHING (even the advice to disregard the results after 10 min, especially when you consider very low levels in very early pregnancy which lots of people have mentioned)!

Heard nothing from my "partner" all day so the last he knows i had potentially 2 positive tests. He hasn't even asked so I've not sent him any messages at all. I finally got a "u ok" a couple of hours ago but quite frankly after going through that scare and seeing his reaction (or lack of it) I'm in the clear after pacing the ground all night worried sick, but he doesn't know that i took another test today and it's negative, if he would have asked i would have said of course, but literally nothing bar the "u ok".

That's not the actions of a loving partner who cares about you is it? Time to face reality and move on with my life on my own, I'm making a fool out of myself here and thought we had something together that clearly we didn't. Him basically ghosting me for 24h after i sent him a message telling him is unforgivable. Being a nice person who you enjoy spending time with doesn't cut it once they have shown their true colours in a time when you need them. I just feel really disappointed and sad that i have to change my whole lifestyle now they are not going to be around. He has his own place but stays with me 95% of the time. I guess I'd rather be lonely that a mug. Now i know his reaction and lack of support had it of been positive I just can't be friends with him, and that's what hurts me most of all, he let me down as a friend.

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DontBiteTheBoobThatFeedsYou · 26/07/2021 11:36

This is just me, but I'd probably give him a little bit of slack.
He was probably bricking it as well.

Some men, rightly or wrongly, withdraw when it comes to the shock of an unexpected pregnancy.
It doesn't always mean they would be a shit the whole time (I speak from experience with that one).
And if he's a good supportive partner in all other ways, and you both don't want more kids then this is just a blip.

Unless of course there's more stuff going on and this is the straw that broke the camels back.

summeryoung123 · 15/08/2021 15:23

Hoping someone can help me.. I’m 5 weeks late on my period. I am usually very regular, had 2 positives and 3 negative tests. Faint positive on a clear blue and an instant very clear positive on an Asda’s own pink dye test. Tested with a cheap strip test this morning and negative ??? But still no period. Help!

Liverbird77 · 15/08/2021 15:56

Congratulations!

Beth074 · 07/02/2022 23:10

Hi,I was wondering if you could help ,
So I did a test and it came back it looks like a faint positive,
The same day I did another and that was negative
Then the next day I did two more nights negative
What would you be thinking ! My mind is going crazy ! X

HestonB · 13/11/2022 14:14

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