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To think this man is a twat?

63 replies

Movin4wards · 23/07/2021 10:57

Side note, his bio says "feminist destroyer" and "known locally as that creep from Facebook"

To think this man is a twat?
OP posts:
RufustheBadgeringReindeer · 23/07/2021 23:34

@Kanaloa

Even if he has been ‘fucked over’ his language towards women is gross and creepy. It’s like he fell in a pool of Reddit and got out dripping wet in Incel.

Punching walls and referring to women as ‘stupid little girls’ and ‘bitches’ is the equivalent of covering yourself in little red flags and dancing around town. He’s repulsive.

Yup
RevolvingPivot · 23/07/2021 23:35

They will be back together by tomorrow 🤣🙁

RufustheBadgeringReindeer · 23/07/2021 23:37

I tend to just answer the OP

Is he a twat …yes

Does he have good reason to behave like a twat…maybe (probably not)

But he’s still in that post and that post only…a twat

warmandtoasty2day · 23/07/2021 23:39

@NotanothernamechangeforMN

I wonder what everyone would say if it was a woman and she was a man hater.... you'd all be agreeing with her right.

Men get fucked over by women as much as the other way around. Remember that.

exactly what i was getting at. a lot of hypocrites on mn.
RufustheBadgeringReindeer · 23/07/2021 23:43

exactly what i was getting at. a lot of hypocrites on mn

Its only hypocritical if you have the same poster blaming the man but excusing the woman (or other way around)

brokenbiscuitsx · 24/07/2021 07:44

Giving off proper incel vibes

Also 100% guarantee he’s the kind of man baby who approaches a woman, she rejects him and he replies one of these golden lines from the ‘man baby trinity’:

“You’re ugly anyway” “lesbian!” “too good for me are you?”

🤢🤢🤢

Pottedpalm · 24/07/2021 08:23

Oh Lord, who cares?

Macncheeseballs · 24/07/2021 08:33

#potted- so far 58 people or so (including double posters)

FreakingOut1011 · 24/07/2021 08:47

@ChainJane

If you base your opinion solely off that evidence then he does sound like a twat. But a twat who has been let down repeatedly and treated badly. If you (as in, multiple random people) treat someone like shit, eventually they will return the favour.

If the "bitch" he is talking about behaved badly, I see nothing wrong with his post, certainly no more than some of the things I've written about my exes.

Yeah don’t bet on it. Incels always moan how badly they’re treated, and what they mean by that, is women won’t tolerate being abused by them.
FreakingOut1011 · 24/07/2021 08:51

@warmandtoasty2day

flip it round as a woman writing this about a man, we don't know the full story. it comes across as twatish but we can only see one aspect.
Women aren’t men though. We don’t have incels and MGTOW, and Nice Guys ™️
knittingaddict · 24/07/2021 09:41

She probably refused to go on a second date or something.

thepeopleversuswork · 24/07/2021 10:20

Even if he has been “fucked over” - and in this context that could mean something as minimal as she failed to return a phone call - his post drips with misogyny and self pity.

Aside from his being a misogynist, anyone who posts passive aggressive attention self pitying shit about the end of a relationship like this is a twat. By definition.

Starjammer · 24/07/2021 10:23

I think anyone who writes this self-indulgent crap on FB in a public post is a bit of a twat tbh.

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