To think this man is a twat?

[Movin4wards]

Side note, his bio says "feminist destroyer" and "known locally as that creep from Facebook"

@Ponoka7

"I posted it to see whether people think I'm being unreasonable to think it's an atrocious way to speak about a woman."

YABU, the cap might fit. I know women who play men and rinse them, if they can. I know a woman with children who is taking advantage of a man with slight LD's. I know another who has taken advantage of a man's poor mental health to get what she can. She recently got back in touch with him when she found out that he was selling his house, she's had him off to the tune of about £4k, he thought that he was moving in with her.

You date him then.

I just don’t know what possesses people to think that ranting to all and sundry about the breakdown of a relationship on SM is ever a good idea.

Yes this guy is a walking red flag.

I could punch a wall

fuck you, you dumb, pathetic little girl

Abusive dick alert.

Can't say I can judge someone on one social media rant.

Never quite understood venting like this on SM, but I have a few male and female friends who do it.

It's very much a "u ok Hun" kinda post.

I would give them a wide berth. They will be 10 times worse behind closed doors. Fact.

Without full context this thread is meaningless and needs no further posts however...

Verdict passed. Shut Mumsnet right now
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Doing it so publicly on FB is enough to warrant the twat label. The actual content and bio are just the cherry on the shitty cake.

Not all MN.

Just the judgemental parts (96-97% at the most)

If you base your opinion solely off that evidence then he does sound like a twat. But a twat who has been let down repeatedly and treated badly. If you (as in, multiple random people) treat someone like shit, eventually they will return the favour.

Absolutely this.
Sounds like he’s been treated like shit. Passive aggressive statuses, mixed messages, whatever else.
He might well be an arsehole but someone has also been an arsehole towards him.

Anyone who needs to air their dirty laundry on Facebook of any things is an arsehole. Male or female.

Spot the incel!

Reads like something out of an InCel forum to me.

Oh no, he posted that in Facebook? That's embarrassing

@TheSunShinesBrighter

If you base your opinion solely off that evidence then he does sound like a twat. But a twat who has been let down repeatedly and treated badly. If you (as in, multiple random people) treat someone like shit, eventually they will return the favour.

Absolutely this.
Sounds like he’s been treated like shit. Passive aggressive statuses, mixed messages, whatever else.
He might well be an arsehole but someone has also been an arsehole towards him.

Or he's just another "OMG I can't escape the friendzone , these bitches never like the "nice" guys" type.

ObviousNameChage

Could be.
We’d need the full story to know!

flip it round as a woman writing this about a man, we don't know the full story. it comes across as twatish but we can only see one aspect.

@warmandtoasty2day

flip it round as a woman writing this about a man, we don't know the full story. it comes across as twatish but we can only see one aspect.

It's not a woman writing about a man, so why would you flip it round?

@ChainJane

If you base your opinion solely off that evidence then he does sound like a twat. But a twat who has been let down repeatedly and treated badly. If you (as in, multiple random people) treat someone like shit, eventually they will return the favour.

If the "bitch" he is talking about behaved badly, I see nothing wrong with his post, certainly no more than some of the things I've written about my exes.

Wow.

He’s Scottish isn’t he?

@warmandtoasty2day

flip it round as a woman writing this about a man, we don't know the full story. it comes across as twatish but we can only see one aspect.

I'd think a woman posting stuff like that was a twat too. Not just because it was posted on FB but also because of the "woe is me " type language.

Everyone is a twat 😁

He's a keeper 😂😂😂

I wonder what everyone would say if it was a woman and she was a man hater.... you'd all be agreeing with her right.

Men get fucked over by women as much as the other way around. Remember that.

Even if he has been ‘fucked over’ his language towards women is gross and creepy. It’s like he fell in a pool of Reddit and got out dripping wet in Incel.

Punching walls and referring to women as ‘stupid little girls’ and ‘bitches’ is the equivalent of covering yourself in little red flags and dancing around town. He’s repulsive.

Also, if people are ‘proving him right’ frequently, the common dickhead denominator appears to be him.