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To put complaint in against estate agent?

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Macanecheeseeee · 22/07/2021 12:33

In the process of buying a property. It has been an absolute shambles from start to finish. I've purchased a house before so I know how stressful it can be but this is on a whole new level. EA has lied about certain issues and overall I'm just really disappointed by their attitude and the service. Problems that could have been avoided easily if they had done their job properly, having to ask them to do something multiple times before they got it right etc, you get the picture. It took 2 months just to get the paperwork sorted (everything was fine and ready to go on my end). My offer was excepted and then everything came to a standstill because the agents hadn't reported something beforehand (something that they should have reported when the property was put on the market). I have no idea what is going on or if the property is still even mine. I'm coming and going and just feel like I'm in limbo. Communication is extremely poor (well, it was ok when they needed something from me) but now they've messed up, I've not heard a peep from them.

I phoned the agent this morning and she said she would get back to me. I even explained how frustrating this whole process has been which she didn't even acknowledge or apologise for. I told her I was debating whether or not to withdraw my offer (they haven't had any other offers for the last 9 months, I wonder why). It is a fairly large branch with a complaints and feedback department. WIBU to phone them up and explain the situation? Or am I best off waiting until I (possibly) buy the property. I don't want things to be awkward with EA but also feel she should take responsibility for her error. When I've made a mistake in my job I've always been pulled up on it.

If it wasn't for the fact I love the property/location so much I probably would have pulled out by now.

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Flowers500 · 22/07/2021 16:56

@Macanecheeseeee

Sorry for the long response. I have decided to withdraw my offer. I'm going to contact the EA tomorrow to let them know. I have also seen a property that has come up today which is lovely, cheaper (bought outright). I phoned the EA up to discuss and she was so helpful, had all the information to hand and has already said I can view the property tomorrow (I had to wait 2 weeks to view the other one as the vendor was so slow). The properties is also vacant as the sellers have already bought and moved out to somewhere else (lived there for 22 years). I have a good feeling about this one!
That sounds perfect!!!!! MUCH better than the other property.
MrsTulipTattsyrup · 22/07/2021 17:14

@Macanecheeseeee

Sorry for the long response. I have decided to withdraw my offer. I'm going to contact the EA tomorrow to let them know. I have also seen a property that has come up today which is lovely, cheaper (bought outright). I phoned the EA up to discuss and she was so helpful, had all the information to hand and has already said I can view the property tomorrow (I had to wait 2 weeks to view the other one as the vendor was so slow). The properties is also vacant as the sellers have already bought and moved out to somewhere else (lived there for 22 years). I have a good feeling about this one!
Much the best idea. Good luck and hope it’s perfect when you see it!
Macanecheeseeee · 22/07/2021 17:15

@Flowers500 thank you :)

Sorry again if I was rude to some posters earlier. I've just been a bit stressed recently but I'm feeling positive again now :). I think it's a sign that this house came up today haha

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TheNoodlesIncident · 22/07/2021 17:24

@Macanecheeseeee

Sorry for the long response. I have decided to withdraw my offer. I'm going to contact the EA tomorrow to let them know. I have also seen a property that has come up today which is lovely, cheaper (bought outright). I phoned the EA up to discuss and she was so helpful, had all the information to hand and has already said I can view the property tomorrow (I had to wait 2 weeks to view the other one as the vendor was so slow). The properties is also vacant as the sellers have already bought and moved out to somewhere else (lived there for 22 years). I have a good feeling about this one!
See, I said the next one will be better Grin Even if you don't get this next one - hopefully it will be just right for you and you will - you will have avoided all the additional stress that was heading your way. Can't be bad!

I bet your solicitors will heave a sigh of relief when you tell them you're withdrawing your offer, that vendor sounded like they would be nightmare from start to finish.

Flowers500 · 22/07/2021 17:34

REALLY glad you’re withdrawing your offer, verbally a good guide is one serious lie or fuck up from the vendor in the early stages, walk. Process is hard enough even when everyone is professional and honest.

New place sounds exactly right, even if you don’t like it though this is the standard you should require!! Stay miles away from shared ownership, or vendors who aren’t actually keen to sell

QueenBee52 · 22/07/2021 17:35

@Macanecheeseeee

Sorry for the long response. I have decided to withdraw my offer. I'm going to contact the EA tomorrow to let them know. I have also seen a property that has come up today which is lovely, cheaper (bought outright). I phoned the EA up to discuss and she was so helpful, had all the information to hand and has already said I can view the property tomorrow (I had to wait 2 weeks to view the other one as the vendor was so slow). The properties is also vacant as the sellers have already bought and moved out to somewhere else (lived there for 22 years). I have a good feeling about this one!

Good on you.... well done 🌸🎉

QueenBee52 · 22/07/2021 17:36

[quote Macanecheeseeee]@Flowers500 thank you :)

Sorry again if I was rude to some posters earlier. I've just been a bit stressed recently but I'm feeling positive again now :). I think it's a sign that this house came up today haha [/quote]

it's very stressful.. 🌸

Souther · 22/07/2021 17:38

@Macanecheeseeee

Sorry for the long response. I have decided to withdraw my offer. I'm going to contact the EA tomorrow to let them know. I have also seen a property that has come up today which is lovely, cheaper (bought outright). I phoned the EA up to discuss and she was so helpful, had all the information to hand and has already said I can view the property tomorrow (I had to wait 2 weeks to view the other one as the vendor was so slow). The properties is also vacant as the sellers have already bought and moved out to somewhere else (lived there for 22 years). I have a good feeling about this one!
Sounds promising.

Good Luck!!

PastMyBestBeforeDate · 22/07/2021 17:48

Hope this one is straightforward!

StormzyinaTCup · 22/07/2021 17:51

That’s sounds like a much better option for you mac.

I don’t know why we don’t follow the Scottish system, it’s not perfect but it’s a darn sight better than the system we have to negotiate.

Good luck🍀

Ruddyknackered · 22/07/2021 17:57

[quote Macanecheeseeee]@starfishmummy did you not read the post properly? They did not report something (which should have been reported when the property was put up for sale 9 months ago) which has directly affected the sale and put a huge standstill on the process. I've had to run around like a headless chicken for the past week trying to sort it all due to their error. It doesn't matter who they work for. They did not do their job properly which has caused issues that could have easily been avoided. Also, when I asked them questions in regards to the property (before I put an offer in) I had to ask them multiple times before I was given an answer. Who else was I suppose to ask about the property? [/quote]
Have you been needlessly aggressive tithe estate agent too?

bananaJamas · 22/07/2021 18:13

Well they kind of do work for you too because of you don't buy then they haven't made a sale

Macanecheeseeee · 22/07/2021 18:48

@Ruddyknackered can you read further down the thread please? I've updated

Thank you for all the positive comments :)

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QueenBee52 · 22/07/2021 19:26

Have you been needlessly aggressive tithe estate agent too?

read the Thread 🙄

OP admitted being stressed and apologised 🌸

Macanecheeseeee · 22/07/2021 19:39

Thank you @QueenBee52 , you're very kind and understanding Smile

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Piffle11 · 22/07/2021 20:52

Good luck with your new property, OP! I would advise you choose a different solicitor… I don’t think the one you were using with the last property was particularly on the ball. Best of luck x

Ideasplease322 · 22/07/2021 21:22

Agree with PP. get a new solicitor. Last one was rubbish

MyrrAgain · 22/07/2021 21:55

YANBU - estate agents are slimey shits. They don't work for the seller, they work for themselves. They only have their best interests at heart.

They fail to tell you important info because they don't want it to affect the offers. Then you find out at the last minute when it all feels too late and stressful and they think you'll just go along with it anyway cause it's too 11th hour and they've hooked you in. Well they can fuck off. Pull out.

Sadiecow · 22/07/2021 22:15

@MyrrAgain

YANBU - estate agents are slimey shits. They don't work for the seller, they work for themselves. They only have their best interests at heart.

They fail to tell you important info because they don't want it to affect the offers. Then you find out at the last minute when it all feels too late and stressful and they think you'll just go along with it anyway cause it's too 11th hour and they've hooked you in. Well they can fuck off. Pull out.

Oh yeah ALL estate agents are slimes shits!!

Of course they are!

They're not making a living, they should do it for free, obviously!

God done people are unbelievable!

Sadiecow · 22/07/2021 22:16

@MyrrAgain

YANBU - estate agents are slimey shits. They don't work for the seller, they work for themselves. They only have their best interests at heart.

They fail to tell you important info because they don't want it to affect the offers. Then you find out at the last minute when it all feels too late and stressful and they think you'll just go along with it anyway cause it's too 11th hour and they've hooked you in. Well they can fuck off. Pull out.

How the fuck is the OP going to buy or sell a house without using an estate agent then??
PomPomSugar · 22/07/2021 23:07

The agent wouldn’t know it’s a shared ownership house without the seller telling them. Your solicitor would have know as soon as they received contract papers.

QueenBee52 · 22/07/2021 23:28

How the fuck is the OP going to buy or sell
a house without using an estate agent then??

you don't have to use an Estate Agent to buy or sell a house ...

lots of people do this without using Estate Agents.

GreyhoundG1rl · 22/07/2021 23:31

It would hardly have helped op in this instance, since she was dealing with sellers who apparently didn't realise they only owned half a house.

QueenBee52 · 22/07/2021 23:51

@GreyhoundG1rl

It would hardly have helped op in this instance, since she was dealing with sellers who apparently didn't realise they only owned half a house.

indeed... Im so glad OP withdrew her offer.. 🌸

Macanecheeseeee · 23/07/2021 00:00

To be honest, it is like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders Smile obviously wasn't meant to be. I think I just stuck with it for so long because I'd worked so hard and didn't want to give up at the last hurdle. I'm so glad I've withdrawn my offer though. I think I would have honestly regretted it in a few months time had I gone through with it. Panic buy indeed!

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