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AIBU to think the contract tracing system is open to abuse?

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ContactTraced · 20/07/2021 06:04

NC for this as it’s slightly identifiable; and also was probably obvious to everyone but me before today…

DSD stays at ours from Saturday afternoon until Tuesday morning. She left for school last Tuesday as per normal, went to school Wednesday, Thursday, Friday and then was due to come to ours again when DH got a phone call from his ex.

She had developed symptoms on Friday night; done a lateral flow test on Sat morning and it had been positive. Everyone in the house then did one too, and DSD was also positive. Obviously DSD was then isolating so didn’t come to ours.

DSD’s PCR came through on Sunday as positive.

Now… it’s DS’s wedding on Saturday. Already been postponed from last July. The ex was texting on Sunday night being quite gleeful about DH and “The bitch” missing this wedding due to isolation.

DH simply said we handnt been in contact with DSD 48hrs before so wouldn’t be isolating. On Monday we get a phone call from track and trace telling us to isolate as we’ve had contact with a positive case in the last 48hrs… clearly DH’s ex taking pleasure in making us miss the wedding… I’m ringing back this morning to appeal…as I was too distraught to do so yesterday.

But it made me think just how open to abuse the whole system is. What if, for example, I had a grudge against a small business and I tested positive? All I’d have to do is say I was a contact of the entire staff and that’s that business gone… I could go down the phone book to find people I don’t like and sentence them to 10 days house arrest with no repercussions!

Before anyone asks, I’ve had both my jabs, stuck to the rules as best I can, continue to wear a mask even now and will isolate until I have hopefully successfully disputed the contact.

OP posts:
Elys3 · 20/07/2021 17:26

Could you post in the legal section for more specific advice? I hadn’t thought of businesses maliciously reporting one another either -what a nightmare.

CastawayQueen · 20/07/2021 17:31

You don’t need to isolate anymore from 19 July if you have a negative PCR

CastawayQueen · 20/07/2021 17:32

Oops sorry it’s 16 August
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CastawayQueen · 20/07/2021 17:32

¥abort mission why doesn’t mumsnet have a delete button

Howshouldibehave · 20/07/2021 17:39

I would investigate how to repost a malicious contact and do so. I would also get DH to ask her to withdraw your names or you will be reporting her.

I would also go to my son’s wedding.

Karaokehell2021 · 20/07/2021 17:39

I would go to the wedding too

NoMoreCovidPlease · 20/07/2021 17:41

Go to wedding. If you get fined, and it's a BIG if, fight the bitch in court.Fuck her, what an arsehole she is. And the staff at contact tracing seem incompetent but that's a different issue.

Nothing (other than actually having COVID) would make me miss my son's wedding! Go to the wedding, worry about the ex later. Isolate until wedding so there's no danger of you catching it somewhere else.

GCrebel · 20/07/2021 17:42

Is this helpful OP?

AIBU to think the contract tracing system is open to abuse?
Horst · 20/07/2021 18:09

I can’t believe despite the you can be fined for false reports there is nowhere that says how to report a false report.

Keep calling op.

hidethesquirrelsnuts · 20/07/2021 18:38

My ex's family falsely gave my children's details to test and trace when they all tested positive. My children were a country mile distant from possible contact. It was done to try and make me take time off work. I told test and trace this, said I had evidence of previous behaviours that have warranted police and social services input and I had a confirmation email from the head teacher (who was also aware of the knob head behaviours) that he was happy to have the children in school.
Test and trace apologised and I never heard from them again.
Go to the wedding!

Wanttocry · 20/07/2021 19:02

I can’t believe despite the you can be fined for false reports there is nowhere that says how to report a false report.

I agree, I googled it off the back of this thread and all I could find was information that you could be fined for giving incorrect info, nothing about reporting anything.

maddening · 20/07/2021 19:28

Also, the last contact was Tuesday, then Friday is the 10th day?

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