To ask if this was rude?

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Asked summer nanny to come up with a plan for the week. She texted me this afternoon with some ideas but one idea meant the eldest child would miss out on library trip she wanted to take the youngest one to. (Eldest finishes school a day later.

I said ' I think you will need to do the library on Thursday so L can also join in. She will be very sad if not.' But did praise the other ideas. Was I rude?

Winter nanny would be much better at organising things in a fairer way, even Autumn nanny would do a better job. Summer nanny sounds extremely bad at her job.

I think it’s hard to say from just one message, because it depends on the relationship you have with her, how well she knows you, what your general manner is anyway etc.