Just wondering if Im being Unreasonable here...
My friend, her sister, cousin and 2 dogs are doing NC500 later this year and asked to borrow one of our tents... Which I did say should be fine but when I spoke to my husband (whos tents they are!) he said No to our 6 man tent due to it being brand new and we havent had a chance to use it but did offer our 4 man tent but only if they make sure it doesn't come back smelling of weed (which the sister smokes potent weed). I grew up in a house surrounded by the smell of weed and its a trigger but also we are carers and have social workers visiting our home so do not want an item of ours smelling of weed.
Anyway I messaged saying I couldnt loan the 6 manwith the sitting area but could loan the 4 man as long as I had reassurances no weed would be smoked around the tent. I got a reply saying for my information they are in a campsite (not info I had) so wouldnt be smoking weed near the tent. I asked her to please see it from both sides and remember my history with weed. She took a screen shot and when I said If shes going to moan thats fine she said she was glad I agreed....
Now I dont think im being unreasonable because I know of quite a few occasions as told by my friend that she smokes when she isnt supposed too because of her moods they give in alot... I told my friend I felt she was being extremely nasty when I simply asked her to make sure it didnt smell... I feel like if she thought I was being cautious for nothing she would have said of course I understand ill make sure we look after your property rather than getting nasty about it...
Please tell me im not being unreasonable